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Originally Posted by Darkest Hour
dude, i don't look like the typical virgin type. I'm not weird looking, nerdy, or anything like that, i'm just shy when it comes to girls. How i even managed to nearly **** 3 hot chicks is beyond me. I set my standards pretty high for girls, and i'm not going to have sex with a girl who is mediocre ever. There's like no way around it, other than taking my chances with some chick and hoping i don't totally suck. It's a freaking embarrassment just to admit i am a virgin to people. Not that i really care personally, but jesus christ, who waits this long to lose their virginity these days?
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Stop being so damn hard on yourself. You're sabotaging your own opportunities because you're being self-critical.
I know it can be easy to be intimidated by women. We all go through that at some point or another. But there's a point where you gotta stop and say "Sh!t man, I wanna do this thing" and you seriously gotta stop thinking that you have to do it right the first time.
Give yourself a margin of error.
If you can't take the possibility of criticism, then how will you ever learn what you're doing wrong?