Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction

Exactly. There is a balance that is LEARNED. (take note of that, Darkest)
You can't begin to learn that balance until you start putting it into practice.
Your first lay is never the best one. It's a learning experience. You find out where things go and you work with what you have.

333, Yea some guys take it to an extreme. Crying after sex is probably something I'd stay away from.
If some chick cried after I did my thing, I'd feel like the cops were coming.
Not good.
I can't imagine why a guy would cry after sex if I were a female... I'd be freaked.