Originally Posted by 333

Haha, I repeat: Cried DURING sex. It was the most awkward moment of my sex life. Who wants to be showered in tears while they're boinkin'? He was only the second guy I'd ever had sex with, and it wasn't even a special, candlelit moment. It was in the back of his goddamn '88 mustang, which was parked in some dark street. It wasn't meant to be some beautiful, touching sex. If I want a good cry, I'll call my girls up. Getting sensitive when we're banging is a no-no. And yes, he cried when I broke up with him a few days after.

Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction

But you do get my point right?
You have to put yourself out there if you expect to get any results. You have to let yourself make mistakes in order to learn how to do things better.
When it comes to sex, you can't just take a person's advice as gold.
It takes personal experience to gauge where you stand on things like that.

If you simply rely on your personal fears, being a virgin, they're largely unfounded and simply holding you back from your own possibilities.

Give yourself a chance.
Discard your fears and dive in.
Make self judgments when there's actually something to judge.