And that's were your mixing things up. I never said it was right to "Beat" a child. and honestly it's not. People who just smile at there kids and say "oh no silly" when they draw on walls make's kids into little helliens. If you spank them on their ass, and show a little aggression twords them they will see they did somethign that was not right and if they did it again they would get another one. you can't be nice when punishing a child. A child want's someone to pay attention and be nice to them. so when you show them when they did something wrong that they will not get that "nice" out of you they won't want to do it again.
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