i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out
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