Heh, I didn't realize I said something that would make a splash. ^_^;;
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Originally Posted by Vanilla
No offense, but that came off making you sound really desperate for someone to like you, feel free to elaberate. It's really important to have a balance. Yes, girls take a lot more work sometimes in comparison to guys in regards sex but it doesn't mean that a guy shouldn't make an effort to make you come or orgasm. If he really likes you and isn't a lazy, selfish ******* acting like it's a string of one night stands, then he should generally want to pleasure you for you.  |
I completely agree with you, aside from the part with the desperation. Haha. What nonsubmissivewife said was true, if I'm in a relationship, I'd like the moment to mean something. I don't mean in an emotional way only, but no one wants to look back at something and have negative memories. I want it to be memorable. Thank you for giving me the chance to explain myself, though, rather than attacking me. [=
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Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife
I didn't get that impression at all. I think she was just saying that when she is with someone in a committed relationship, she likes to make sure they are pleasured as much as possible, instead of just being happy they are getting a half-assed blow job or what have you. Which I think is pretty awesome...but I could have misunderstood her too.
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Thank you for explaining what I meant, especially since I didn't have the chance to at the moment. That's exactly what I mean, hehe. And I'm quite glad you think it's awesome. <3
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Originally Posted by Vanilla
I think maybe you're right, I missed a couple of key words when reading it. Sorry aww sugar! My point still applies though, minus the sugar part.
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I do that all of the time. I have to read posts three times, otherwise I'll go straight into attack-mode and COMPLETELY lose the point of the thread. xD <3
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Originally Posted by jackhammer
Ain't that the truth.
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^_^ Thank you. What would I do without you and your posts and advice? <3