Honestly, no. I'm at a point in my life now where I don't feel threatened by my girl's male friends, because if I did it would just be a sign that our relationship isn't meaningful or solid enough for me to trust her. There was a time when I might've gotten jealous, but nowadays I really look for intelligence and a mental connection on top of that initial physical attraction. I know I'm not the most handsome guy, and I don't try to be. I'm more comfortable with being myself, and my dating habits have changed accordingly. If she's in love with another guy then so be it, I'm not trying to control her or play all kinds of mind games. It just wasn't meant to be.
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