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Old 08-08-2009, 10:17 PM   #1351 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali View Post
That's just the thing...
I'm not condoning cheating or anything... But if, at any point, you're in a relationship with a significant other and you fall out of love/like with that person... Are you cheating?
What if you're realizing that the person is completely wrong for you?
You may even have fallen in love with someone else during this process...

What I'm saying is that a person should break the relationship off, before pursuing another. But it can't be cheating if you're subject to your own emotions. The things that make a strong relationship are not based on whimsical emotion.
Yeah, I know, it's hard to define. Where do you draw the line? If I think a person is in a relationship, and they fall out of love or fall into love with someone else, they should break the relationship off before pursuing another. It's only fair to the other person.

But then again, a fleeting crush on someone else is totally different to being in love with someone else. So would THAT be cheating? I don't know. I guess it's subjective and depends on the people involved.
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