I dunno... I wouldn't condone a guy leading a girl to believe he actually wants a relationship when he doesn't, nor some of the other particulars mentioned, but I don't see the problem with being at a point in your life where you're just out for the booty and not a relationship.
Obviously you make it known to the girl, but sometimes it's not a guy being afraid of commitment and/or being immature, but him making a conscious choice to not get involved with someone he's not 100 percent able to commit to because of whatever factors in his life.
For example, I sure do like the booty, and when I get an opportunity to land it, I do so. But I'm not roaming the streets trying to find a relationship right now. I've got school to worry about, getting a new place, and eventually settling into a new career and getting my affairs in order.
Now is not the time for me to divide my attention and energy, and it's a wise choice, because I know how I am in relationships and I know what's priority for me right now.
Not looking for a relationship doesn't exclude me from the booty, nor does the booty require a contractual relationship obligation. If I feel like the girl may be trying to get involved, it's mature to clarify the intentions and cut if off right there.
I just think that guys, and girls, get a bad rap for being in this position when they're actually making mature decisions but taking advantage of opportunities that present themselves.
Again, I'm not condoning the behavior of the guy that poster is talking about.
I just wanted to inject another perspective into the matter, because it's definitely not a black and white one.
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