I think tradition should only play a part in the ceremony, and not in your desicion to plunge.
I used to think marriage was archaic, blahblah. But really, it's a step towards a stable and some might say better life. The most important thing is, if you're going to have children, obviously they do better off in a houshold of married folks. Married people are less stressed, and usually more financially sound. That said, I don't think it's for everyone. I think some people force themselves in to marriage, and even more just marry the wrong person because they think it's "time." I think it's a personal desicion, and one that should not be taken lightly.
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