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Originally Posted by jayfin3
I dont know, not all teens are as dumb as you think. I for one, having been "in love", "obsessed", what have you, am nowhere near sure that what I feel is love, which is part of the reason I started this thread. I also know that what I feel could change, and some part of me is hoping it will change. So basically, you are being a typical snobby grown-up :/
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ah but all i meant was the ones who think they are in all ending "love". obviously, you saying you are not even sure, you are not included in what i was talking about. i would hardly say i am grown up...especially in terms of relationships. i'm just as unsure as anyone, but having lost love i know i was once in love.
i just think it is hard for anyone to be sure until they get their heart broken. it is a sad and hard road to go down, but unless two people are just totally sure of their happiness together, not going through a couple rough relationships is detrimental. you start to question yourself, you don't know if maybe there is someone else out there for you. it is just bad. now i know what i want in a relationship and how to resolve certain situations that may pop up.
just remember you are always learning. i never meant to imply that teenagers are incapable of love. i just think they are so inexperienced and affected by hormones, the newness of it all, etc that most will pass off obsession and infatuation with love.