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Originally Posted by NumberNineDream
^ so there's no shining light telling you "that's your gender" ?
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[[= You rang?
Well for me, it was more like I always liked girls in some way, and I thought it was wrong. As I got older, I had more chances to experiment, and I went from thinking it was wrong, to figuring out it was just everyone else that was closed-minded.
I was basically sheltered for most of my life, so no, it wasn't because my parents are g
ay or anything like that.
I was always attracted to girls, and then I fell in love with one, and realized that it isn't much different from being with a guy you have feelings for.
I don't consider myself lesbian or homosexual or straight or anything.
When people ask, I tell them I love who I love.
Some people, like me, think it happens from when someone's born.
Others think it just comes from experiences.
In my opinion, there's someone out there for you. It may be of the opposite gender, it may be of the same one, maybe you'll never meet them and you'll settle for whatever you have.