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Originally Posted by ProggyMan
Sadly Pete what you suggest for poor Vanilla is biologically unfeasible.
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How come? Why couldn't I be with someone "nerdy" so to speak?
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Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic
this is not a personal attack against vanilla at all, but I feel like threads like this is why girls get such bad raps on forums and the internets in general.
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I was asking the forum their opinion and I've had some brillant feedback, why would this potentially give me or another girl a bad rap? One thread doesn't define me either, I'm pretty sure most people here have opinions of me by now.
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Originally Posted by CanwllCorfe
[Tangent]It's unfortunate because it seems like what men and women are "supposed to be" in society is thrown at us all the time. I look at the women's magazines while I'm waiting in line and it looks like a guide to try and be a perfect girl.. the men's magazine usually has a half naked woman and articles about eating, politics, music, football, or something else altogether. It's just how it is. I'm not the conventional male.. which is why I struggled a lot in high school with people thinking I was ***. Why? Because I defied the stereotypes set in the media as what the typified male is supposed to be like. I'm sure if I was the quintessential sex hungry, sport loving, beer drinking, male and had unconcern for what I looked like.. then I would have been insanely popular. While women deal with anorexia and confidence issues because it's their "job" to be skinny, beautiful, and have the ability to please a man. It's a sad shame.[/Tangent]
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This has been what I've been thinking, there is a lot of pressure on women to be perfect. Men have expectations but not as much. I think this entire thread has been an interesting debate, it's obviously quite relevant.