Oh, what have I been missing out on?! No-hands orgasms? Brilliant. I used to do this at work to achieve tiny ones, as someone mentioned earlier, but never a full-on orgasm. I've been noticing lately that I'm not as comfortable with my body as I thought I was. I cannot come without clitoral stimulation and I am ****ing sick of it. I have the greatest sex I've ever encountered with the guy I'm currently with, but I know it can be better. My usual is to rub myself while he ****s me. Sometimes, I can climb on top and grind on him (so that I'm ****ing him and my clit is rubbing up against him) and I'll get off that way. Most of the time, he has to turn me around, where I can access myself easier and we almost always come this way together and I'm sick of it. I want to see his face when I come. Help?
As for preference of rough or soft sex, it all depends on the mood I'm in these days. I used to just "****". Making love, to me, was for sissy boys who cried on you while you were trying to turn around and bend over until I found someone that I actual knew how to make love. I still love rough sex often. It's just nice to be gentle, too.
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