I have a penis vibrator myself, it's blue and is somewhat lifelike, as it's silicone I think it is? Those plastic ones have to be weird to have inside you, since they don't retain your body heat. I also have a lipstick vibrator, but it's more of a "pin the tail on the donkey" game using that one. Handcuffs I'm not so fond of as I can easily pop out of them (tiny wrists). Outdoor sex is my favorite