mr dave

^well that's a crap situation if i ever heard of one but you DO lay out your path of recovery clearly in there.

6 figures.

yeah, auntie can buy you replacement gear. she can also do it without uncle finding out if she wants to keep playing enabler for junior.

it's not your responsibility to take care of your cousin no matter how close you were when you were growing up. it's not your fault he got into bad ways when you left, you are not his pet / servant. so long as everyone is willing to tiptoe around his BS he's going to keep pulling it.

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