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Originally Posted by mojopinuk
I dont expect any comments of this nature.
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You'd get those comments on other forums like DDD (which is sexist as holy f*ck) sure but I don't think MB is like that.
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I actually thought your post was one of the more honest, insightful in this thread so far. As someone perfectly happy with their gender, with absolutely no desire to be any other way, i thought it was interesting to read such an honest account of some of the ways in which others can feel somewhat uncomfortable.
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Yes we can all agree that when else fails, blame the douchebag males. A lot of men seem to really get off on the concept of penis envy and that women really want to be them, another bigoted worldview that needs to be challenged in the same way the old worldview that it's better to be white than to be black needed to be challenged.
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You know, i agree completely that women get judged far more for sleeping around than men do. im not claiming this is right but its a fact as far as im concerned. Im happy to admit that promiscuity is a turn off for me. It's a big turn off. Its the biggest turn off and if i think about it and ask myself whether i would judge women for this more than men then maybe if im honest, i would realise that i do judge women a little more?
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I don't get the huge sexual appeal of virgins, I presume it's because the first time is always the most intense and giving women the most sexual satisfication is itself very satisfying. Or maybe it's just the concept of getting to be the "deflowerer". But I'd much rather have a girl with experience if I do say so myself.
The thing is, if a woman is sexually promiscious but at the same time not anyone's bitch, as in she's in total control of her sexual life. Then she is not a slut. If she is then it's only common logic that any promiscious male would himself be a slut.
A slut isn't a sexually promiscious woman, it's a woman (or man) with serious esteem issues who is willing to degrade herself in persuing some insignificant goal. A woman who sticks around an abusive boyfriend cuz she's desperate for a relationship and feels like she doesn't deverse better is by my definition a slut. Or a prostitute.
But to say all promiscious women have self esteem issues is wrong and insulting and yeah it's a huge double standard.
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Im not entirely sure that this is the case because i dont exactly have a very high opinion of the guys i have known or know or have met in the past who go from bar to bar trying to tap up every single girl they see so they can take her home and brag about her to their friends the next day but also, im not attracted to men. I dont want to be friends with guys like this but i damn sure dont want to sleep with them either, so in that sense it isnt a turn off. Their sex lives are none of my business and so why do i care?
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I have never been one of those guys and so I can't deny feeling some degree of sexist resentment that so many women inexplicably find that kind of behavior attractive. If anyone has a valid reason to turn queer it would be me but goddammit I'm holding on to my heterosexuality. Because as confusingly complicated as women are, it's worth it in comparison to men. I don't find men sexually attractive (though maybe I experimented with the concept when I was younger) nor can I relate with the great majority of them in any way.
How so many of them tend to view women is a part of it but there is a whole bunch of reasons. There is no worse kind of person than an alpha male.
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I am however attracted to women, i do want to sleep with women and i dont want to sleep with a woman who is the female equivalent of the type of guy i just mentioned, who is the kind of girl that actually sleeps with these kind of pricks and so that WOULD be a turn off. Would it not be natural if i were to judge her a little more?
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This could be considered a double standard but I am attracted to some women who are like that. When guys do it it's like they treat it as a game of hunting, "HOLY SH*T GUYS LOOK WHAT I CAUGHT"
But with women, the dominatrix and cougar types, it's a refreshing role reversal. It shows that women can be the one in control in the bedroom.
Women have a great f*cking power over men, every guy knows it, unfortunately not every woman does, we try to make women feel like inferior sh*t so they don't get too comfortable with the idea that they can be in control if they want to be.