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Originally Posted by tore
In the interest of sparking some discussion, I can add that sex is nowhere as important to me now as it was some years ago. Man, when I was a teenager, I wanted it all the time. Now I'm happy as long as I get a little now and then - let's just say a lot less often - and if I had to choose a partner all over again, good sex wouldn't be anywhere as important a criteria as it would've been earlier in my life. I mean, if sex with a new partner wasn't that good, one could always figure out how to improve it in the future, right? Various qualities trickling into a kind of long-term happiness seems more important these days than instant gratification.
I feel kinda old for writing this though  |
I agree with this. I have always felt this way. I get that when people are younger especially, finding people to have sex with is more important than anything else but i have never felt this way. It annoys me when i hear some of my male friends discuss sex in this way and all their latest conquests like it were a sport or something. If thats whats important to some people then so be it but i've always been more interested in an actual relationship and sex, while still important, is a part of that relationship. If i'm not in a relationship, the lack of sexual activity isn't something i really give two sh
its about to be honest.