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Originally Posted by CanwllCorfe
That's usually the case in the short term but I remember reading a study that when a woman wants to settle down she won't wanna be stuck with that type.. for obvious reasons. But then again they will never wanna go for the overtly sensitive type. I think it's all about balance; a guy they can have a lot of fun with but can be serious and mature when the situation calls for it. Being the extreme on either end is no good
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Well, some women are conditioned to believe that the more masculine a man the better. And these days being masculine is just a kinder word for being a douchebag. Society embraces the idea that alpha males and men who are "in control" are what women need. And so women believe that and unfortunately it becomes justifcation for overly controlling and abusive behavior.
A lot of women who stick around with total ballsacks justify it with their lack of self esteem, the feeling that they don't deserve someone better. My mom used to be like this and her previous relationship was a terrible one.
Self esteem is a big issue with women and I guess like most feminists I pin a good portion of the blame on men.