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My problem was that I didn't want to spend a lot of time perusing this stuff online, so I found some add-ons for Firefox that allowed me to right click and pretty much harvest the images from entire sites to look at later, then toss out what I didn't want. Most of the time, I just forgot about them, until my wife stumbled across the folder where they were getting dumped and let me know just how much was in there. At least that was the result of an automated process making it too easy to accumulate material, and not because I was obsessively downloading it.
I think I'm actually more uncomfortable with having that stuff than my wife is. She doesn't make any moral judgements on acomophilia. It is what it is, and as long as there are boundaries, it's OK. On one level, I know it's just an itch that needs to be scratched, and keeping some images and videos was fine when I was single, but now, it just doesn't feel quite right to me.
And actually, I get a bigger thrill when I can enjoy the fetish with my wife. You'd be surprised how much you can enjoy a woman talking about shaving her head even when she doesn't actually do it. Combine that with running her hands all over my head, and who needs pictures?
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I'm still single sooooooooooooooooo...........
I don't really see anything wrong with fantasizing about other women, if it's only fantasy. Then again I guess that depends on your religious beliefs and what not.
When you're not in a relationship then yeah self pleasing is your only alternative lol. And I'm not really ashamed of my little folder. A lot of guys have porn collections, I just have something a little weirder lol.
Yeah I don't want people to see it and think I have problems I don't have. But on the other hand I think the shocked reactions people would give would be more funny than hurtful to me. People already think I'm weird anyway.
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I've definitely been there. I did once make a brief comment to some friends many years ago, when we were all drunk and sharing little secrets. It just got lost in all the drunken ramblings, most of which were forgotten by morning.
Probably the closest I've come to announcing it was to hang a picture of Persis Khambatta on my wall. Can't remember what prompted it. I think it's just natural, when you have a picture you think is beautiful, that you want to display it. I think it was, in part, just not wanting to enjoy a beautiful picture alone. This was maybe ten years ago. It was a fold-out magazine poster of her with the butterfly painted on her head. I got it plaqued (the woman at the store commented on how stunning Persis looked), and put it on the wall. I figured since it had science fiction connections and it was a very artistic retro-70s photo, it could be justified without admitting anything. But it was also an outright invitation to ask questions. I was asking people to start putting two and two together.
The toughest thing is when you think you might know someone who is into the same things as you, but there's no way to be sure without sticking your neck out and revealing something about yourself. What if you're wrong?
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I imagine one day I will be comfortable enough to bring it up to family/friends if a topic ever comes up where it would be relevant.
I would be more nervous to tell girls about it than guys. Guys would just call me a weirdo and joke about it and sh*t and I've gotten used to that. Girls would end up thinking I'm a crazy rapist guy or whatever.
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Glad you're enjoying the blog, by the way. Any interest in writing some articles?
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Hmm, I've been meaning to start a blog that covers a wide range of subjects but you mean write articles for your blog? Sure, why not?
If you had more than one contributor it would get updated more often. We can also share ideas for articles and such. So that sounds great. I'm up for it.