Originally Posted by TheCunningStunt

There's a lot of wise members on here, all would be happy to help with any problems in your personal life. I thought this would be a nice thread for people to unburden their problems, and get some perspective.

I'll go first... Me and my ex, we were together and it was a short relationship and it was generally a bit of a train wreck. So, I ask you... Can things change over time? She messaged me randomly, after a lot of ill feeling. More on my part than hers, I refused to talk to her a while ago. I decided life's too short to be holding a grudge, one thing led to another and we had a good catch up and we're supposed to be going out for a drink and to go and see a film.
She's a bit mental, clingy and insecure.
I'm pretty much the opposite, I don't want some clingy bint hanging off my shoulder looking for constant attention.
Pretty unsure what to do.
Oh wise forum, help me.