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Originally Posted by TheCunningStunt
You know she's on board? You've been talking about the possibilities of a serious relationship before you've met in person?
I think it's the things you don't do that you regret, what's the worst that could come of it?
If you don't you may look back and see her reasonably settled down, if that's what she's looking for at the moment - and you might think damn, I should have took the chance.
I don't fully understand two people who have never met discussing a 'serious' relationship, no. I just assumed you were chatting on Facebook and flirting a little bit, getting ready to meet up and go out for the first time. I didn't realise two people who have never met could have a talk about a possible future serious relationship. I guess you must be weirdly close to get to that stage?
And I have no idea why you're resisting it, if you're happier when you're in a relationship. Focusing on a career while working at a relationship sounds great. Doesn't it?
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Dude, you don't have to actually talk about being in a serious relationship (loosely translated to something more than weekend f
uck-buddies) to have a pretty good idea of what the person is looking for.
I probably should have mentioned that she's been a friend of my sister for years, and my sister used to talk about me all the time when I was in the Army, so she's [the friend] got more of a background on me than I do on her, and she made it pretty clear that she wants to act on that info. And based on the discussions we've had (regardless of them being on Facebook) it's obvious that she's the kind of girl who goes for the relationship. Assuming I don't show up as some complete jac
kass and completely ruin the idea, and knowing myself enough to know that if I dig a girl beyond a sexual attraction that it usually ends up serious. The only variable is her, and based on what I've both heard from my sister, and from her, it's not hard to figure out the odds. Yes, I'm assuming... but it's an educated guess.
But all that is irrelevant. Most of your response isn't even focused on the question. I wanted insight on what's holding me back from the possibility of being in a serious relationship right now. Thanks for your input...