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Originally Posted by thirtiesgirl
Interesting how you assume that simply because she's an attractive woman, she must have a lot of sexual partners, or constant offers to have sex.
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I never said that.
But I know she gets a lot of offers. She appears pretty confident and she knows she is beautiful. She's happy with the way she looks and the way she is. So that's not the issue
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You just assume that, since she's had quite some partners (not a very slutty amount, but still enough to gain some sexual experience), you'd come to think that she must have had some good sex in her life so far.
So I just wonder why she doesn't like sex. I don't mind, but it is quite remarkable.
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People who are less confident tend to have fewer sexual partners.
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Well I'm pretty confident with myself and I only had one girl I really had sex ("it") with. But that's probably because I'm very, very picky. And I've been with her from my 18th up till last year.
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But I'd agree that this woman most likely hasn't had a good sexual experience yet if she doesn't enjoy or see the point of it.
Unfortunate. If you're dating her, I hope you're patient with her, show her lots of love and support and are hopefully able to help her have a better sexual experience at some point in time.
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I'm not dating her. She's just a friend. Altough I must admit that, though she is entirely not my type, she really has something.
And don't worry, I'm really really very patient with the people I choose to be with. I can get annoyed really quickly if I'm forced to be with people who are not my kind at all, though.
Eitherway, I'm not the pushy type and if my girlfriend wouldn't want to have sex with me for any reason, I wouldn't mind. I wouldn't be able to live with a girl I can't hold, cuddle or hug, but I can live without sex, kissing, the lot. I don't mind. Don't get me wrong, I love sex. And I do think it's really good for a relationship. But it's not a requirement for me.