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Originally Posted by bonesaw-orchestra
My question is.. well it's kind of a long and arduous story of a boy I dated on and off for 2 years. This past year we've basically just hooked up, (until I moved away in August.) He was seriously messed up, and in turn, I was seriously messed up. Long story short: he did too many drugs, and I didn't want to see him anymore. He told me to find a man who actually had the "time" and would put in the "effort" to be with me. We had completely stopped talking for over month, and I found someone else. When he found out I'd moved on, he completely flipped his **** and called me every bad name in the book, claiming I'd cheated. I know I wasn't cheating because we were not emotionally involved anymore, and he'd TOLD me to find someone else. He's now using this information in an attempt to slander me. I'm not with the other guy, for obvious reasons (my rebound/his birthday/I moved,) but my ex is still using this as a way to have a reason to hate me. Does this make any sense at all? I'm not a guy but I think this is a seriously screwed up double standard. Our relationship wasn't going anywhere, and I think I just needed a way out.
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Well it doesn't make sense. He's being irrational. Just be glad you're not with someone who treats you that way. If he wants to talk about you that way, let him talk, you know the truth. And someone who loves you will believe you either way.