My god if anything like that would happen to me I think i'd move to another country out of pure shame
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And I understand the difference you make. I think you do have a point.
I wouldn't kick someone like the friend you mention out of the house. I'd just call him a stupid ass and say I'm glad he made it without hurting himself or anyone.
A friend of mine called me one morning a couple of months ago.
She apparently took a bit too much some or another drug, had sex with her boyfriend and forgot to take the pill. All went well, but at those moments I really think 'what were you thinking'...
Maybe I think too much
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