You know, we're pretty baffled about that sometimes, too.
There's some doubts. There's I reason I refer to her as ex-girlfriend all the time.
If I wouldn't do that you wouldn't believe she's my ex-girlfriend.
No, really, it's simple. We love eachother as much as we did, we hug eachother as much as we did when we see eachother. But there's no sex and we don't live together anymore. It just didn't work. Our ways of living are too different and we need too much space in our lives because of that. I want to have friends over all the time, drives her nuts. But probably without living together, who knows.
I know it didn't work the way we used to be, but who knows...
Her new boyfriend is about as bad as I was, in completely different ways.
It's complicated.
Edit: I now understand why I didn't understand why you were talking to me. You said 'why the hell', I read 'when the hell'.
Sorry
Eitherway, because we couldn't be together. But we obviously can't be apart either. We're pretty much made for eachother, but our lives don't really work together.