It was Franco wasn't it? I'm on his side.

Leave her alone ffs. She's having a tough time and not breaking any rules. If you don't want to read the thread head off somewhere else. Until or unless we open a new "Personal Problems" section, this is about the right place to put something like this if she feels she needs to vent.

If a mod has a problem with the thread it will be closed. Otherwise just get off her back, huh?

To be fair, if you're going to post something like this on a public forum you do leave yourself open to criticism.

Thanks Manky.

So you know brother honestly didnt know where else to put it.

You want my # too? Lines are open, and I have a fresh box of tissues.

good cause i watched black swan last nite so im all out

I can help you with this, Fred. I'm good like that.

Let me clarify as people got confused along the way.
I caught the 2 for 1 ass hole Mb special. My ex is an *******, and I have known this for a long long time.
Not that big a deal, he doesn't deserve a thread about how badly he hurt me.
The person I'm talking about is an established member , whom I thought was dear friend of mine and text me @ 11:30 for no apprent reason other then to be cruel just to be cruel. With the weak ass excuse behind it. Everybody playing the same sport now?

srill think it was dj but broadening to secondary options i will pick whateverdude as my 2nd option cause he gets drunk a lot on weekdays

Don't take it so hard. I understanding you being upset by it but don't let it ruin your day. Just put some time and space between you and the person and not deal with him/her for a while.

This. Don't hurt me!

In all seriousness, this is what I think about whatever the **** someone said to you.

This thread should have been closed hours ago.

Sure, but it's not necessary. If Manky doesn't like or isn't interested in the thread can't he just not read it or participate in it? There's no need to bring the lady down when she's already so low, is what I'm saying. Bit of human compassion, yeah?

Seriously people: if we can have a "cheer Goofle up" thread then why can't we have one for Roxy? Huh? Nobody had a problem with that thread, and in fairness it seems to be only Manky who said anything sort of unkind about this one I know, but if someone's in pain would it not be nice to cut them a little slack instead of, well, frankly, whining about their thread?

This is the last I'll say about it. I just think a bit of understanding goes a long way. We don't all have our emotions in perfect balance, and to be honest I don't think a "personal problems" thread would be too bad an idea, for those once-in-a-while moments when ya need to talk. And not about music. Ain't we a community, after all? Or are we all just so wrapped up in ourselves and our music that we don't see/care about the problems some of us may be having?

I don't see why this is being spewed publicly rather than through pms like adults.

inb4 jansz feels it necessary to make some snide comment about me doing something similar

Not even ever. **** you.


Edit: way more importantly, I am very sorry to hear you're having a hard time with this fella, Roxo. You've always been very kind and genuine and anyone who is skeptical of that doesn't deserve your affection or friendship, imo. <3s abound.

Let me respond as to why I put this here, I was venting. Which I have a right to do. And Trollheart is right, compassion goes a long long way. I nevet gave up the person in question, nor did I give intimate details about the conversation. What I find interesting is this person spoke for more then just themselves and said it was a comon thought. I started the thread to see if it was indeed a comon thought.And I put in the announcements to announce the fact that if anyone else also felt that way the could say it to my face instead of talking about me behind my back. Because you know what, Herm I make myself available to anyone on this board anytime someone stubs their toe or has a bad day ,to talk if they want to talk. 90 percent of my responses to ppls post say pm if you need me. Why am I not allowed to make it know that someone I cared about like a brother basically ripped my heart out during a tumultuous time in my life. So if that makes me the villian here by all means I'l wear that crown.

the irony is strong lol. just ignore it.

whateverdude i wasnt takin a dig at ya bro just so ya know. didnt know who roxy was really close with and u seem friendly with her and drink a lot so i didnt know who else to guess

That sort of makess sense but let's think for a moment.

1. I've lived in Cali my whole life, Roxofoxo's in Florida.
2. This relationship of hers has been going on for 11 years. I am 22...
3. I've done some wretched things while drinking but deliberately hurting people? Not my thing at all, unless it's called for in which case... someone's going to the hospital. But yeah. Weren't me, nosiree.

because you're being way melodramatic and self pitying. I've spent countless hours taking care of people on this board but I would personally be embarrassed to make a huge thread going on and on acting as though I deserve to be coddled when a friend was merely making a private criticism. I don't see why it's necessary to make a whole thread all about you when it's purpose would have been served in the spill your guts thread

Dude you are confused. Lol.Like I said.
I just so happened to recive two seprate calls/ texts from two seprate members.
One I dont give a **** past them annoying me.So it went to bitchbox.
That one is the 11 year relrelationship. Even after him being a part of my life that long nothinf he coukd say or do makes him thread worthy.

The thread worthy poster was a friend who I met here. And I cared about them alot. Until they thought it was appropriate to treat me like garbage on a monday night for no reason.

Wow. Just wow. Hermione, I have nothing to say to that other then please dont speak to me for a long long long time.

what the fukc?? you give that kind of response?? she says shes havin a hard time and stuff and she is layin it all out there and u gotta come in here just to give ur 2 cents for whatever thats worth. like i know we dont get along and dont speak but this is just absurd and id expect a lot of things outta you but not this. this is just goin off the deep end a little bit and its just.... not somethin id expect in this situation

i mean really what im tryna say here is where is the tumblr gif? jpg, really??

This is pretty appalling that you would post this.

THIS >http://www.musicbanter.com/announcem...raight-up.html is a useless thread, what Roxy is saying is completely 100% different than that nonsense.

Look at this This is your freaking opinion. I think it's adult that Roxy said that someone here is bothering her here, but regardless of what I think, stop making it be law that these threads shouldn't be made. The mods decide that obviously, not anyone else.

lmaooo I never said it wasn't an opinion doe.

Maybe that is exactly what Roxy needs to hear

that not everybody here is her friend.

i just hope that she gets over this and maybe chooses who she trust more carefully from now on.

yeah exactly and it's unrealistic and unhealthy to expect everyone to like you. not only that but a little criticism never hurt anyone

like rox I'm sorry for your troubles and **** but I don't see how that justifies betraying and embarassing your friend like this

Well I do expect everyone to like me, if they can't well then hey it's not my fault they failed my expectations.

This has to be one of the more entertaining threads ever.
Thank You MB!

You're da bomb.

I have to admit that this thread has put Roxy under a bad light, more than necessary. Unfortunately the threads always end up the same (for and against members). I definitely think Roxy should have talked to the person who's bothered her privately. I love Roxy to bits, but in this forum, people jump on you the moment you appear vulnerable.

huh. lol. did anyone other than herm?? maybe i missed somethin

No but I'm talking in general, not just this thread specifically. But it's pretty rude to kick someone when they're down.

I never jump on anybody unless I'm drinking. So I quit the drinking while I was surfing MB forums. Now I'm I totally better person in real life.

Yeah I remember when you did that to me the other night. http://fc03.deviantart.net/fs7/i/200..._Darius_II.gif <--- this is so Trollheart can understand what we mean by that.

Well it wasn't Me! Somebody had to break into my MB profile/account. I don't know what you and trollheart mean either. I haven't read the thread.

I was wondering where those infractions came from.

I didn't think it was you tbh the guy sounded drunk http://fc05.deviantart.net/images3/i...k_emoticon.gif talking about flutes http://smileys.emoticonsonly.com/emo...flute-1205.gif and talking trash about flutists. http://fc00.deviantart.net/fs70/f/20...be-d4g931r.gif

Trollheart feels I should use more emoticons to make things clear for him.

You seem to have a secret stash of emoticons..

Im up to your tricks.

http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-conte.../01/god-hi.gif

we've gone 8 pages and has anyone mentioned forgot about dre lyrics yet??

@Neapolitan

It's a song bro. Butthead wouldn't make that big a mista-nevermind.

Hey I don't know you at all roxy, but I just wanted to say something. I'm not so great these days at saying the right thing to make people feel better, but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. I do believe I'm going through something similar right now, if you're saying what I'm pretty sure you are. Feel free to pm me if you ever need to.