Were you around long enough to see OH in all his 'glory'?

He gets mad whenever I post that thread so I keep doing it.

no, but that's not the same as decidedly accusing someone of being a pedo, and that nuance is exactly my point. Someone can be very creepy and blamable for serious things without being an outright pedophile

Tbh, I didn't read any of this. I just wanted to join in.

I think nuance is great but at a certain point you gotta make a judgement call and he's reached my limit. Do I have a smoking gun? No. Am I willing to give him the benefit of the doubt anyway? Also no. He's a piece of **** for any number.of reasons (f.ex. calling black people monkeys) and I'm just done with him and don't want him on this forum.

Ok OH

Good to see ya, Chula. Glad you're well.

When it comes to things like pedophilia then no, that would be using it too lightly. Do you fully realise how grave a thing that is?

And thy is there a need to make a judgement call anyway? You can realise he's creepy, problematic, sexually inappropriate and possibly a pedo without making the full accusation. To stick with your example, you can not let someone babysit a child to be sure of safety, without such an accusation. You also have enough reasons not to want him on this forum without such an accusation (and I agree, don't lump me in with the people who don't)

We're also on a medium where we can't watch him or have social cues that might be easier to pick up on irl. Abusers can have a whole side hustle going on in PMs we never are privy to while having only a cultivated persona to judge. We literally have no idea whether it's true that he just started lying about having a wife for no reason or whether he's been lying about not having a wife this entire time for whatever reason. All we know is he's a liar who's lying for some reason. You should listen to weird manipulators when they seem to inform on themselves, like when they continually are weird about underage girls.