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Wayfarer 06-09-2009 10:20 PM

Do you know what the word "enforce" means?

SATCHMO 06-09-2009 10:22 PM

This is getting st00pid.

Janszoon 06-09-2009 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Wayfarer (Post 678163)
Do you know what the word "enforce" means?

Yes.

So are there laws or not?

Janszoon 06-09-2009 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by SATCHMO (Post 678165)
This is getting st00pid.

Getting?

Wayfarer 06-09-2009 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 678167)
Yes.

So are there laws or not?

Not that I'm aware of, however the entire premise of the thread was enforcing moments of silence.

SATCHMO 06-09-2009 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 678167)
Yes.

So are there laws or not?

Oh Janzoon, please use the force and your badass R2-D2 ghettoblaster powers to make this thread go the way of the death star.

Janszoon 06-09-2009 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Wayfarer (Post 678169)
Not that I'm aware of, however the entire premise of the thread was enforcing moments of silence.

And? If it's not a law, and we're just talking about minors being "forced" to be quiet for a minute by their teacher for fear of a stern talking to, why should I give a shit?

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Originally Posted by SATCHMO (Post 678170)
Oh Janzoon, please use the force and your badass R2-D2 ghettoblaster powers to make this thread go the way of the death star.

:laughing:

Wayfarer 06-09-2009 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 678174)
And?

And thus whether or not there are currently laws against it is completely irrelevant.

Janszoon 06-09-2009 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Wayfarer (Post 678177)
And thus whether or not there are currently laws against it is completely irrelevant.

If it's not a law, and we're just talking about minors being "forced" to be quiet for a minute by their teacher for fear of a stern talking to, why should I give a shit?

SATCHMO 06-09-2009 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SATCHMO (Post 678170)
Oh Janzoon, please use the force and your badass R2-D2 ghettoblaster powers to make this thread go the way of the death star.

obi-wan- janzooni You're my only hope

Wayfarer 06-09-2009 10:55 PM

I'm not going to dictate what you ought to and ought not to care about. My only charge is that you'd be wrong to brush off my argument on the grounds that there are not any present laws strictly prohibiting vocal expression during so-called "moments of silence". Keep on struggling to subvert the debate and drown all dissension in a sea of irrelevancy, though. Personally, I find SATCHMO's method of wedging one's way out of conceding erroneousness through utter buffoonery far more effective.

Janszoon 06-09-2009 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Wayfarer (Post 678202)
I'm not going to dictate what you ought to and ought not to care about. My only charge is that you'd be wrong to brush off my argument on the grounds that there are not any present laws strictly prohibiting vocal expression during so-called "moments of silence".

Oh, you had an argument?

Wayfarer 06-09-2009 11:13 PM

...

maybe I shouldn't have told you to keep on with that.

mr dave 06-10-2009 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Gareth Brown (Post 678035)
What if their life or death means nothing to me? What if i support the reason that they died? I'm not saying i don't want minutes silences because it inconviniences me, i just don't want to be forced into acknolding respect for something i do not respect.

if this is a major stumbling block in your personal development you WILL have a very hard time dealing with the realities of being an independent adult.

whether or not you agree to it is irrelevant. your ability to shut the hole on your face for a minute is.

seriously, enjoy your mcjob because no one will hire you to do anything more significant than flipping a burger with that attitude.

Antonio 06-10-2009 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 678028)
I've never heard of any workplace doing that but I understand the concept. So you're complaining about not speaking for one minute? How old are you?

haha that's what i was thinking :laughing:

SATCHMO 06-10-2009 01:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Wayfarer (Post 678202)
I'm not going to dictate what you ought to and ought not to care about. My only charge is that you'd be wrong to brush off my argument on the grounds that there are not any present laws strictly prohibiting vocal expression during so-called "moments of silence". Keep on struggling to subvert the debate and drown all dissension in a sea of irrelevancy, though. Personally, I find SATCHMO's method of wedging one's way out of conceding erroneousness through utter buffoonery far more effective.

My decision to employ such "buffoonery" was based on the futility of trying to communicate a simple concept to someone who all out refuses to listen.

We understand the principle that you should not be forced to do anything you don't want to, but hey the next time the situation comes up go ahead and make an ass out of yourself by refusing to show the modicum of respect and maturity that is being called for and see if you find that the people in your surroundings are any less or more sympathetic to your principles than we are.

Scarlett O'Hara 06-10-2009 05:59 AM

This thread is an example of how selfish people can be. "Why should I give a dead person a minutes silence when I don't even know/care about them?" - it's one freaking minute. If you can't allow one minute of your precious 1440 minutes of your day to think about someone else that had personal experiences that you could learn from/admire, then you've got serious issues. It's nice to care about what other people have fought for, accomplished, or suffered because of, because it helps you find peace within yourself and how you live your life. Problems you have might not seem so bad in retrospect to those who have died.

But whatever, if you want to have your precious minute then I hope it's good for you.

Janszoon 06-10-2009 06:38 AM

After looking through this thread in the light of morning I just have to say the level of hyperbole in Wayfarer's posters is pretty hilarious.

Gareth Brown 06-10-2009 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by mr dave (Post 678343)
if this is a major stumbling block in your personal development you WILL have a very hard time dealing with the realities of being an independent adult.

whether or not you agree to it is irrelevant. your ability to shut the hole on your face for a minute is.

seriously, enjoy your mcjob because no one will hire you to do anything more significant than flipping a burger with that attitude.

Jesus ****ing christ. I've explained my reasoning and whi i think this is wrong and i've certainly highlighted that it goes beyond me not being able to shut up for a couple of minutes.

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Originally Posted by SATCHMO (Post 678129)
I know where you're going with this and if we were discussing the details of said event I would probably agree with the way you feel about it, bu that is not the issue. The event that gets "observed" with the moment of silence is usually the one that has the greater affect on the lives of the people in the immediate group in question. My point is in a situation such as that its not about who suffered a greater loss or which loss was the most tragic or the least justified. Its about being respectful of the feelings and the losses of those who are immediately around you, because you would want them to do the same if the situation were reversed even if they haven't or wouldn't in reality, and that transcends politics, nationality, religion, or anything else.

There we are. A fairly intelligent argument that goes beyond 'u r so stupid u shud kep ure trahp sht 4 2 minits lool 11!1!11!' . I see what you're saying here but i still have to disagree.

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Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 678389)
This thread is an example of how selfish people can be. "Why should I give a dead person a minutes silence when I don't even know/care about them?" - it's one freaking minute. If you can't allow one minute of your precious 1440 minutes of your day to think about someone else that had personal experiences that you could learn from/admire, then you've got serious issues. It's nice to care about what other people have fought for, accomplished, or suffered because of, because it helps you find peace within yourself and how you live your life. Problems you have might not seem so bad in retrospect to those who have died.

But whatever, if you want to have your precious minute then I hope it's good for you.

Ok i don't know why i'm bothering with this still, BUT. Say i agree with 9/11, i think it was a just cause and i have absolutely no sympathy/respect for those who died. Now, why should i have to....you know what forget it i cba with this nonsense i've put my cards on the table, if you still refuse to read them and ignorantly dub it as selfishness then thats your call.

Wayfarer 06-10-2009 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by SATCHMO (Post 678346)
My decision to employ such "buffoonery" was based on the futility of trying to communicate a simple concept to someone who all out refuses to listen.

Sorry if it seemed like an insult, maybe "buffoonery" wasn't the best word to use. Wasn't intended as a shot at you or anything, if that's the impression you were getting.

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 678400)
After looking through this thread in the light of morning I just have to say the level of hyperbole in Wayfarer's posters is pretty hilarious.

At least somebody gets it.

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Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 678389)
"Why should I give a dead person a minutes silence when I don't even know/care about them?" - it's one freaking minute. If you can't allow one minute of your precious 1440 minutes of your day to think about someone else that had personal experiences that you could learn from/admire, then you've got serious issues.

Seems like nearly everyone in this thread is completely missing the point. I never claimed to be (and as far as I know, Gareth Brown never claimed to be) wholly unwilling to remain silent for a minute to commemorate the life of a lost one, I've only asserted that it would be wrong to enforce such "moments of silence". Additionally, the "selfish" argument could be made both ways. Sure, it might be indicative of rather self-centered thinking were someone to refuse to donate a single minute of their time to another, but it is not just as selfish, if not moreso, to expect everyone to go out of their way for you, even if it is only for a minute, to memorialize someone that they may or may not have liked or respected; that they may or may not have even known or given a rat's arse about? It would be especially selfish to want such behaviour enforced.

Also, let's revisit the first post I made in this thread. I was playing the clown, sure, but there was also a point made there and I never did get a proper response to it.

"Aren't 'moments of silence'...kind of ****ing stupid to begin with? What's the magic in not saying anything for a minute? I lay still, relatively quietly, for eight or so hours a night. There's an abundance of silent moments to commemorate all the lives of your dead relatives that I don't care about right there. It's just some idiotic tradition that doesn't mean anything, y'know, like taking off your hat when the national anthem is played. What's the point?"

One thing I'd imagine most who are laying in their death beds to be thinking is how they wish they'd done more in life, "seized the day", yeah? And we commemorate that by standing around in silence, not doing anything? Why, that's almost as bad as commemorating the resurrection of Jesus by telling our children a giant bunny rabbit broke into the house at night and scattered chocolate eggs all about. We really are a ****ed up species.

SATCHMO 06-10-2009 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Gareth Brown (Post 678463)
Ok i don't know why i'm bothering with this still, BUT. Say i agree with 9/11, i think it was a just cause and i have absolutely no sympathy/respect for those who died. Now, why should i have to....you know what forget it i cba with this nonsense i've put my cards on the table, if you still refuse to read them and ignorantly dub it as selfishness then thats your call.

If I were in Saudi Arabia at an event and someone called for a moment of silence for the members of Al Kaida who valiantly gave their lives on 9/11 I would be silent simply because I would know that despite how I feel about the situation. the people who died on that plane were someone's brother/uncle/father/son and the grief their family were experiencing at that moment of silence was deserving of my respect.

Burning Down 06-10-2009 11:22 AM

It's sad to know that it's people like you (Gareth Brown and Wayfarer) who probably wouldn't take a moment of silence on November 11th to reflect on the sacrifices that people (regular people just like you, might I add) made in order to attain the freedom that you are enjoying today (which has also enabled you to say such things).

You don't have to have known the people that this moment of reflection is concerned with, frankly, most people probably don't give two shits if they knew the person or not. It's just out of respect that society ASKS you to take a minute out of your day to be silent. Heck, you can think about whatever you want, no one can read your mind, so if you're thinking "this is so stupid" nobody will even know or care for that matter!

The Unfan 06-10-2009 01:41 PM

To make a second argument since the first one obviously isn't working for you numbskulls; what if my way of showing respect is to talk about how much I love and respect those dead people? Or even better, how do you know those dead people and those who grieve for them want you to be silent for a small arbitrary amount of time? Maybe they'd rather have us talk about all those great moments those dead people brought.

TheBig3 06-10-2009 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by The Unfan (Post 678636)
No one's paid attention to me for the last 6 minutes. Wheres my limelight?

You can't talk around that minute? Actions speak louder than words. I'm almost certain you're a "talk over people" kind of guy.

The Unfan 06-10-2009 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by TheBig3KilledMyRainDog (Post 678648)
You can't talk around that minute? Actions speak louder than words. I'm almost certain you're a "talk over people" kind of guy.

[Insert deity of choice] forbid I have a valid opinion and wish to share it. These conversation things are terrible eh?

TheBig3 06-10-2009 01:59 PM

I know you want to play in the troll games too, but you didn't answer the question. Is that because your arguement was fluffed up so you could stir the pot?

Gareth Brown 06-10-2009 04:09 PM

Why do people on here seem to think that disagreeing with someone equates to trolling? Tbh i thought i'd have a lot more people agreeing me than not.

IamAlejo 06-10-2009 04:25 PM

They shouldn't have to be enforced. It should be easy to have enough common sense and respect to simply be quiet.

mr dave 06-10-2009 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Gareth Brown (Post 678455)
Jesus ****ing christ. I've explained my reasoning and whi i think this is wrong and i've certainly highlighted that it goes beyond me not being able to shut up for a couple of minutes.

right... but i still think you're reasoning is immature to the level of the average burger flipper.

like it or not 'moments of silence' are part of our society. they will happen around major events that shape our society and culture. it's the culture's way of recognizing a sacrifice or tragedy, it's on a higher level than the individual human beings that make up said culture.

Urban Hat€monger ? 06-10-2009 05:32 PM

If I don't think something is worth a minutes silence I just keep my mouth shut out of respect for those that do.

Good manners should not be debatable.

Wayfarer 06-10-2009 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by IamAlejo (Post 678842)
They shouldn't have to be enforced. It should be easy to have enough common sense and respect to simply be quiet.

That just about sums it up.

Gareth Brown 06-10-2009 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by mr dave (Post 678935)
right... but i still think you're reasoning is immature to the level of the average burger flipper.

like it or not 'moments of silence' are part of our society. they will happen around major events that shape our society and culture. it's the culture's way of recognizing a sacrifice or tragedy, it's on a higher level than the individual human beings that make up said culture.

I think its slightly offensive that you seem to have such disdain for burger flippers.

Freebase Dali 06-11-2009 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Gareth Brown (Post 679027)
I think its slightly offensive that you seem to have such disdain for burger flippers.

Have you eaten at a fast-food restaurant lately?

TheBig3 06-11-2009 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by The Unfan (Post 678654)
[Insert deity of choice] forbid I have a valid opinion and wish to share it. These conversation things are terrible eh?

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Originally Posted by TheBig3KilledMyRainDog (Post 678648)
You can't talk around that minute? Actions speak louder than words. I'm almost certain you're a "talk over people" kind of guy.

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Originally Posted by Gareth Brown (Post 678815)
Why do people on here seem to think that disagreeing with someone equates to trolling? Tbh i thought i'd have a lot more people agreeing me than not.

Because Leaf Garrett, as you'll see here in the above unmolested quotes, he didn't answer the question.

I even spelled it out as much in my previous comment but maybe you're in the same game as Unfan. The "Pretend no one addressed something game is tired and old. Read or leave.

CrAbY 06-12-2009 06:19 AM

I think this is very immature. If you can't take a little while to have a moment of a minute to be quiet to remember some deceased people you need to have something like this happen close to you.

When 911 happened the minute of silence was not just for the hundreds of people who lost their lives it was for the shock it had on the United States. When this happened to the US my school had to have a moment of silence and no one objected. It's not much to ask. They are not asking you to pray to God or anything, they are just asking for you to be quiet for a little while.

I've had times in my life where I have lost friends,family,and people I didnt even know. This moment of silence is a form of greiving and it really helps you to remember the lost for what they were good for.


Thank you,

CrAbY

Wayfarer 06-12-2009 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by CrAbY (Post 680241)
This moment of silence is a form of greiving and it really helps you to remember the lost for what they were good for.

So do it at home by yourself, yeah?

CrAbY 06-12-2009 07:41 AM

Yeah if someone close to us have died or some big thing happened we have the respect to have a moment of silence. It is'nt much to ask.

Wayfarer 06-12-2009 07:53 AM

No, it isn't much to ask, but it's completely unnecessary to ask considering you can just have all the moments of silence you want in the privacy of your own home.

CrAbY 06-12-2009 08:00 AM

How old are you? You don't have enoughe respect to shut your mouth for 1 minute?

Wayfarer 06-12-2009 08:04 AM

I do, but I think it's rather stupid that it's expected of me. Do you not have the respect in you to leave people alone and deal with your own bloody problems on your own bloody time? See, the whole "respect" argument works both ways as well.


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