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Pet_Sounds 02-03-2015 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by grindy (Post 1546916)
But as long as we keep thinking that way, said unnecessary awkwardness will prevail.
Only when we, the enlightened, modern, intelligent and incredibly good-looking people, stop caring about those roles, might they be abandoned at some point.
Not to say, that what you said isn't true when it concerns people who actually take those roles seriously and live according to them. But one shouldn't generalize.

You make an excellent point.

Xurtio 02-03-2015 06:25 PM

It's kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy. Boys propose because it's expected in our culture. So when a girl proposes, the assumption that boys should propose plays into people guessing at what the motivation was for the girl proposing was (as evidenced in this thread). Dude didn't have the balls? She's crazy? Desperate?

Not that I think it's fair, but it seems to be how it is.

Carpe Mortem 02-03-2015 06:26 PM

No, it is absolutely not okay. The very thought of it sickens me, right up there with people who don't punch their ponies in the face.

Xurtio 02-03-2015 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem (Post 1547058)
No, it is absolutely not okay. The very thought of it sickens me, right up there with people who don't punch their ponies in the face.

Vermin Supreme would NOT approve.

Carpe Mortem 02-03-2015 06:28 PM

Actually though I generally get the impression that women find it more meaningful to be proposed to, whereas dudes might feel emasculated and wouldn't think its romantic no matter how its done. Society isn't there yet. Abolish marriage.

Carpe Mortem 02-03-2015 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Xurtio (Post 1547059)
Vermin Supreme would NOT approve.

Its cool didn't vote for him anyways. I voted for his hat.

Xurtio 02-03-2015 06:40 PM

The presidential candidate of the anarchist party wouldn't have it any other way.

simplephysics 02-03-2015 09:05 PM

Is it okay for a man to propose to a man? Is it okay to say no? Is it okay to say yes knowing that it won't work out? Is it okay to propose only because there's a fetus involved? IS IT OKAY?

Paul Smeenus 02-03-2015 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by dreadnaught (Post 1547076)
Is it okay for a man to propose to a man? Is it okay to say no? Is it okay to say yes knowing that it won't work out? Is it okay to propose only because there's a fetus involved? IS IT OKAY?


How is there going to be a fetus involved?

simplephysics 02-03-2015 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Paul Smeenus (Post 1547078)
How is there going to be a fetus involved?

Those propositions are disrelated, but hey it's 2015, anything is possible right?


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