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Black Francis · 04-26-2014, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Mojo

I see where you're coming from. A straight man being grossed out by gay porn isn't necessarily also gonna be of the opinion that same sex couples shouldn't have the right to their sexuality or whatever. But I think James point is repulsion is pretty strong to be fair.

I don't watch gay (male) porn, because I'm straight. Why would I? I don't get lesbian porn either to be perfectly honest because again, I'm straight. As I'm attracted to women, I'd watch the lesbian porn if I was made to choose for some reason, but I've often found it quite weird as well that some straight men would react so colourfully to the thought of two dudes ****ing yet happily watch women **** all day long.

I never got the lesbian fascination either, but i was surprised to see alot of teenage girls love Yaoi (Yaoi is male on male anime/manga) so it's not just a guy fetish.

Im all for sexual freedom, be happy and gay if that is your thing but im a little repulsed by it as well, i watched velvet goldmine cringing

~~James~~ · 04-26-2014, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

Im all for sexual freedom, be happy and gay if that is your thing but im a little repulsed by it as well, i watched velvet goldmine cringing

Wow.

14232949 · 04-26-2014, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem

You were, actually. Otherwise your body would have not begun preparing itself to make babies. But the fact you grew up somewhere that places heavy importance on the innocence of 'children', and probably think animals are inferior, makes it difficult for you to understand the logic.

Yeah, I get it.
You're needing to make the distinction between body and mind.
Your body has reached a stage of development where it is ready to experience sexual activity although the progress of cognitive learning is not always the same speed as that of the bodies.
Some girls although they are physically equipped and capable of sex are simply not ready for the mental implications of becoming sexually active.

If a nine year old were to have their first period (although it seems highly unlikely) they would be equipped for the physical side of sex.
Since everyone progresses at different mental stages, it could take until she's 20+ to be mentally mature enough for sex or it could be 10 years old.

16 is an age where most should have undergone the necessary bodily and cognitive development in order to be sexually active, so I think it's more than fine especially if you live in a society where sexual intercourse is perfectly legal.

Also, I'd like to add. Carpe I like the cut of your mustard, you come across strong minded and intelligent yet you don't aggressively push your views on others. I like that.

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

Im all for sexual freedom, be happy and gay if that is your thing but im a little repulsed by it as well, i watched velvet goldmine cringing

Before anyone wants to give you a hard time, if I remember right, you're from the Caribbean right?
Different culture, society and values guys. Don't flame him over this.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 04-26-2014, 12:40 PM

hey guys scat is pretty gross

Carpe Mortem · 04-26-2014, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Mankycaaant

Yeah, I get it.
You're needing to make the distinction between body and mind.
Your body has reached a stage of development where it is ready to experience sexual activity although the progress of cognitive learning is not always the same speed as that of the bodies.
Some girls although they are physically equipped and capable of sex are simply not ready for the mental implications of becoming sexually active.

If a nine year old were to have their first period (although it seems highly unlikely) they would be equipped for the physical side of sex.
Since everyone progresses at different mental stages, it could take until she's 20+ to be mentally mature enough for sex or it could be 10 years old.

16 is an age where most should have undergone the necessary bodily and cognitive development in order to be sexually active, so I think it's more than fine especially if you live in a society where sexual intercourse is perfectly legal.

Also, I'd like to add. Carpe I like the cut of your mustard, you come across strong minded and intelligent yet you don't aggressively push your views on others. I like that.

Thank you for getting it, and for liking my mustard haha. I am of the opinion that debates of fact are more relevant than debates of emotions and morals.

To take that a step further, there's plenty of research to suggest dogs, for instance, possess a certain amount of cognitive growth. Who's to say when a dog is bred a year after beginning menstruation it doesn't experience similar issues a young human would?

Black Francis · 04-26-2014, 01:01 PM

What? was i being too insensitive?

I think gay porn is less gay than that movie.

If i am to be honest, i can't think like a gay guy cause im straight but i don't have any prejudice against them.
i have a gay friend that likes to share his promiscuous gay sex stories with me, he has even tried to hit on me and i honestly don't mind. (I take it as a compliment)

However, the thought of living his same life style grosses me out, it's a matter of preference but not imposing those preferences on ppl.

at least that's how i see it.

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Originally Posted by Mankycaaant

Before anyone wants to give you a hard time, if I remember right, you're from the Caribbean right?
Different culture, society and values guys. Don't flame him over this.

Yea, yea, ^ this.

im foreign idk any better

(i still don't know what i said wrong though)

Trollheart · 04-26-2014, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Tristesse

Just in case anyone wanted an interlude to your wonderful debate about whether finding young women attractive makes you a revolting person:

If any of you find yourself caring about what my opinion of you is then I recommend spending a weekend in a spa, re-evaluating your life and your goals

Trollheart – His devotion to the journal section is admirable, his taking everything too personally is not. His avatar makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside my cold dead heart.

I choose to take that personally.

Seriously, thanks for the mentch!

Isbjørn · 04-26-2014, 02:32 PM

Someone should make "The Official Sh*tstorm Thread" in order to keep this thread on topic; I don't really think its purpose is ranting about whether or not men are secretly pedophiles or whatnot.

Mojo · 04-26-2014, 02:34 PM

**Goofle** · 04-26-2014, 03:15 PM

Goofle11: Dumbass mod who - when asked to specify the "Reason for ban" - typed his password for the site because he was being a dumbass. Also needs to change his password.

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