You want an explanation , fine i`ll give you one.

There is only one reason why I decided to leave here ,and one reason only. And that is at the moment my grandmother is lying in a hospital bed close to death & my family is under a great deal of stress right now ,especially my father. So you`ll have to excuse me if i`m a little senstive to people making assumptions about my family right now , especially my father. And quite frankly if a moderator can get away with making comments like that then I really don`t want to post here.
I didn`t make a fuss about it , I just left & told ONE person I wasn`t going to be here anymore. It was you lot who kept this running on & on , not me. Yes I was signed in as invisible , only to respond to people sending me PMs and telling me to look at what people were saying about me. And I was right to do so because this whole pathetic saga has just turned into one long witchhunt. If you think that makes me an attention whore then fine , I really don`t care, I have more important things to worry about right now , such as the welfare of my family.

Right , there you go you have the truth , now stop flaming the people I was friends with that still post here , stop all this bullsh*t & move on with your lives.

Trust me I won`t be coming back

anyone wanna fill me in on what the fuck happened here? please, i could use a laugh at the moment.

^....helpfull.....

thats what i was going for. right there. Urban, im sorry about your family life, you could of been honest from the start. i wasnt attacking your father personaly, i was tying to get an idea of where you were coming from. the disrespectfulness that you felt, has been felt by many. because of you. except it or not. come back or not. you just explained exactly what i was hoping for, your disrespectfulness towards others. The girls you flirted with, gave me an excuse to confront you, maybe you didnt see it coming, but ive gotten several IMs about it, and confronting you PUBLICLY was the way to do it. either you had no reason to hide, or youd run off and leave, you made the choice. This thread was so ppl could flame me for doing what i did, and it looks so far that people agree with what i did as opposed to defending you. except for those few who were all over your nuts, and even they couldnt come up with a decent argument, only immature insults. am i surprised by their lack of maturity? no, i pointed that out a long time ago. I still think you are the same guy i figured before, but now this is where ppl start feeling sorry for you. im not the only one that called it, read the thread, youre better gone and forgotten than pittied and remembered. you did it to yourself tough guy. Your last line.."trust me, i wont be coming back", well see, i think its just a ploy, another sob story to get people to beg you to come back.. sound familiar, yeah, i predicted this very thing, and you will be back, i guarantee it. your ego is to big to be beaten by an "american" you were here first, youre pride is to great. i started this thread for people to bash me, but it looks like its you that they want to bash. except for the very few that are just as immature as you are.

thank you, and yes, i know, she doesnt need a tit shot for people to think shes hot.

the insults and posts that he made were public. he made a thread "ask urban", i asked him about those posts, he decided to leave, i didnt ban him, which i could of, and it would of been perfectly within the rules. instead, i gave him the opportunity to explain himself., his explanation for being the way he is.....family hardship.

i was asking about his dad and his homelife because believe it or not, that has alot to do with ones upbringing. i dont think it was poorly dealt with, he made plenty of remarks public, and i questioned him on them publicly. show me and others some respect, and i will show the same amount to you.

ok, save me the time of looking around, what is it that you are asking me?

punk rock is not dead, youre just looking in the wrong places.