I'm sorry my dear... I did not read all the posts. Tis my bad. I give you credit for my thoughts.

Really?! Is your family of Viking decent? If so mine too and that's rad!

thank you my darlin but as we know great minds think alike ;)

but on topic in the end if anyone finds it that hard just don't get burried next to either of them. or just get burned.. i mean really if its that hard to choose.. don;t!

Get yourself buried next to the one that's dead. If they're both dead, then they're not likely to care eitherway. Flip a coin.

whoever has a prettier headstone.

Who said I'm going to remarry?

I might just own lot's of cats that look like Cyclopes.

Jack Daniels, you can bury me with Jack anyday

What does it matter where you are buried? You're dead. So is the person next to you. It's not as if you are going to start a conversation or something.

word.

There's probably some Norse in there somewhere, many, many generations back.

But Viking Long Boat, 'Immigrant Song' on as they push me away from the pier, and then have a couple of tons of TNT ignite when it finishes. Better than having everyone dressing in black and sobbing about how wonderful I truly was. How deeply, devestatingly wonderful.