meh, I could never see myself living that life, but hey, whatever floats your boat. if you're happy, thats all that matters. Although, you're only 18, are you sure you're ready to start a family and settle down? I'm only asking this because my own values and plans for myself are pretty much on the opposite end of the spectrum, so it's hard for me to understand.

**** yeah. That's wicked girl. If that's what make you happy then screw anyone who opposes it. Being a mom is a very special occupation and I know from my mom raising me and not working that it paid off, she sacrificied her job to me me who I am today. She doesn't regret it one inch.

I can imagine your sitution and because you have the dedication and passion to do this, you will be a wonderful wife, mother, woman.

no no, it's not that I can't get a degree, I just don't want to. I'll have a diploma when I graduate, and I'm sure I could easily get a degree in a field like engineering or business, and be very successful with it. I just don't want to. I don't want to spend a lot of time in school right now, I figure this is the only time in my life that I'm old enough to live my own life, and young enough to do it with no obligations, and I plan to take full advantage of that.

That's ok, school isn't for everyone, but it does help in the long run. It give you more options if you change your mind.

Good luck with your music career, starting young always helps.

Random/useless fact: the Yellowcard drummer started drumming when he was 5 years-old.

That's wicked! I understand now, I think alot of people miss out on that side of life because they are too focussed on their careers and future. Good luck, have fun and get drunk!

its not that i plane on starting a family with the next guy i meet or anything. more like a couple more relationships down the road. or if my next relstionahip is great planning can be made sure. but i don't mean right away, i mean thats my goal, this is what i want for my life, i just don't know when its going to happen.
thank you :) i think i will be a awesome mom!
oh yea i forgot to say, half the reason why i don't want to go to art school or anything is because even if i can't draw that great, and i know i can't paint, and i can make sexy outfits and design nice xloths, i fear in going to school instead of opening up my mind that it will change my style and i will not realizing of course but kind of pick of random people's styles that aren't my own and thus becoming just what schools want a cloan.. and i don't want to be like everyone else, i prefer my own style even if its not that great i like it. and its not that i think everyone picks up other people's styles, but i know what i'm like and i know i would. anyways teachers never liked me and i never liked teachers. I don't like school and always hated it, even art class when i was one of the top students (not for my drawings or anything just my style and how i always did my own thing) and i just hated having to do projects and it has to be done then, and then i always end up with something i never liked just because i can't do it in the time period or whatever that i want thus making me mad and ignorate to people because i'm pissed at the job i do (i'm not a perfectionist i just like things done a kind of way) but ya i don't have time for school!. thats it thats my point school makes me mad and bores me beyond belief.

ahh, well in that case, I think that's great. being a mom is easily the hardest job you can take on, but it sounds like it'll make you really happy, so good on ya.

oh yeah, and from what you've said, I'd advise you not to go to art school. no matter what you're studying, you're first year will consist of absolutely nothing but rigid assignments, still lifes, and drawing from models. It's a great thing for people who are really serious about art, but if it isn't your lifes passion, you'll hate it. I had to learn that the hard way, but hey, it's just another learning experience.

the way i look at it is, in the very selfish but odd way.. which could be completely normal sounding.. but as long as i'm happy everyone is happy, cause when i'm happy i would do anything and everything for anyone to make them as happy as me.. and when i'm not happy i still try to make them happy, i just don't smile which trust me if you new me it would not be a very good thing. cause then i'd just be like my mother hehe.. and i don't want that..

damn you for editing and adding more after i posted.. jk haha! anyways its because it is my life passion that i don't want to go to art school. does that make sense. ??

makes a whole lot of sense, because it reminds me of me. I love art, and for years it was the one thing that I could see myself doing for the rest of my life and not get sick of it. Now i'm studying fine arts, and I hate it, because it's completely sucking the fun out of it.