Music Banter - An Appeal to the Community

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Originally Posted by TheBig3KilledMyRainDog

So I have a question for you guys that I'd appreciate an honest answer to because its bothering the **** out of me.

I'm seeing the girl. She has some odd preoccupation with race (shes mexican) but aside from that we get along great and I really enjoy her companey. Heres the problem:

I mentioned today how she and I were talking once and she said "I could never see myself dating a black guy." I took it as prefrences like "I could never date someone who...listened to country music". But when I brought it up with a bunch of friends tonight, they said she was racist.

So now I'm ****ed. Is she? Is there something wrong with that? I mean at first I grilled her on it and said "well if I was black, would you not date me?" I need outsiders opinions that can speak freely. I also need a place where no one can make the connection. We're family, right MB? I'm hoping you guys can help me out.

What did she answer to that question?

No, shes not racist just for saying she wouldnt date a black person, thats just like me saying i wouldnt date one of those skinny white guys in my school, but i'm not racist against white people.
But then again, she can be. It depends by her actions and other things you pick up from her within time.