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Old 04-11-2011, 06:13 PM   #271 (permalink)
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How can u be 'turned on' by jealousy? Envy maybe but jealousy is a negative emotion and being 'turned on' is a positive emotion (at least in the eyes of the beholder).
Yeah, I don't get it either. Perhaps he meant envy; those were his words (saying 'jealousy is a turn on for me'). I've never heard of a guy being 'turned on' by the thought of you sleeping with one of his friends (or other guys for that matter). Wanting you to deliberately make him jealous. Although I think it is more fantasy, but still....

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Jealousy is one of my most disliked traits in people and I find it completely counter productive.
I agree. I had an ex that was plagued with frequent bouts of jealously and it was insufferable.

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It could be the ideal partner and the person of your dreams but if jealousy reared it's ugly head then I would rather be alone than put up with that trait.
Same. The guy I'm speaking of is just a friend; nothing going on between us. But he mentioned that to me the other day and I wasn't sure what to think, lol. Piqued my interest, seeing as I'd never heard of a guy relishing the thought of his girlfriend f***king another guy.

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Old 04-11-2011, 08:25 PM   #272 (permalink)
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Is it at all common for a guy to be 'turned on' by jealousy? And why???
I am, for one. I used to have a gf I used to torture by making her cry during sex as I said I take all sorts of girls back to my room for the rumpus.
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Old 04-12-2011, 06:10 AM   #273 (permalink)
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Yeah, I don't get it either. Perhaps he meant envy; those were his words (saying 'jealousy is a turn on for me'). I've never heard of a guy being 'turned on' by the thought of you sleeping with one of his friends (or other guys for that matter). Wanting you to deliberately make him jealous. Although I think it is more fantasy, but still....
but it's definitely a fantasy/fetish though.


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I agree. I had an ex that was plagued with frequent bouts of jealously and it was insufferable.
Yeah it sucks, I had an ex that was so jealous that she had to go and try to make me feel jealous by flirting with guys because I'm naturally a flirt and she didn't like it. I didn't even care that she was flirting with guys and that used to get her even more pissed/upset lol. She wanted me to be jealous like it shows that I'm passionate or w/e. She's screwed up in the head. It didn't turn her on but she felt more loved when her bfs get jealous of her. Her last bf before me was this hispanic dude with a short temper that would get jealous all the time and I guess she loved that type of attention. Then she gets into a relationship with me and I'm the exact opposite because I flirt as much as she does with other people

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Same. The guy I'm speaking of is just a friend; nothing going on between us. But he mentioned that to me the other day and I wasn't sure what to think, lol. Piqued my interest, seeing as I'd never heard of a guy relishing the thought of his girlfriend f***king another guy.

Thanks for your response, btw.
some guys are into that type of stuff. it's called cuckholding or something along those lines
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Old 04-14-2011, 01:56 PM   #274 (permalink)
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Is it at all common for a guy to be 'turned on' by jealousy? And why???
I've never been jealous of anybody in that way before to be honest.
Seeing a girl with a troglodyte of a boyfriend if anything turns me off her for having such bad taste.
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Old 04-27-2011, 01:14 PM   #275 (permalink)
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Old 04-27-2011, 02:00 PM   #276 (permalink)
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Old 04-27-2011, 02:13 PM   #277 (permalink)
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Perhaps he was concealing a hardon.
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Old 04-27-2011, 02:18 PM   #278 (permalink)
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How else would you know he's been in the shower.
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Old 04-27-2011, 02:20 PM   #279 (permalink)
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Perhaps he was concealing a hardon.

Also an acceptable answer. It is Disney.
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