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Originally Posted by jackhammer
How can u be 'turned on' by jealousy? Envy maybe but jealousy is a negative emotion and being 'turned on' is a positive emotion (at least in the eyes of the beholder).
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Yeah, I don't get it either. Perhaps he meant envy; those were his words (saying 'jealousy is a turn on for me'). I've never heard of a guy being 'turned on' by the thought of you sleeping with one of his friends (or other guys for that matter). Wanting you to deliberately make him jealous. Although I
think it is more fantasy, but still....
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Originally Posted by jackhammer
Jealousy is one of my most disliked traits in people and I find it completely counter productive.
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I agree. I had an ex that was plagued with frequent bouts of jealously and it was insufferable.
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Originally Posted by jackhammer
It could be the ideal partner and the person of your dreams but if jealousy reared it's ugly head then I would rather be alone than put up with that trait.
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Same. The guy I'm speaking of is just a friend; nothing going on between us. But he mentioned that to me the other day and I wasn't sure what to think, lol. Piqued my interest, seeing as I'd never heard of a guy relishing the thought of his girlfriend f***king another guy.
Thanks for your response, btw.
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