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Blain 08-04-2006 05:44 AM

Bah Game Boy Advance? You need classic Game Boy Colour Lolzors

tdoc210 08-04-2006 05:53 AM

^ the gba emulator will work with all gba games doof... i had a game boy pocket once..it didnt fit in me little kid pants.

MoonlitSunshine 08-04-2006 06:10 AM

I still have one..

tdoc210 08-04-2006 06:11 AM

FTW sega game gear and neo geo pocket bitches..bet you didnt have those..or tandy sytems.

MoonlitSunshine 08-04-2006 06:33 AM

no. I was a deprived child. I wasn't allowed get game consoles of any kind. I didn't get a game boy till Pokémon game out, and I didn't have access to my own computer games till I was about... 12 I think. I could play them at other people's houses, but I didn't have them myself.

dog 08-04-2006 07:20 AM

any type of bugs, big, small. hate em, i get really horrible when i see em. same with people, feel physically and emotionally sick.

i see both of them as a vermin, HA! (not excluding me)

Raine 08-04-2006 03:33 PM

My biggest fear is not being ale to have kids. Or ever being able to have kids by any means. you know birth, adoption, that sorta thing.
And my second biggest fear is actually having kids and then either being as bad a parent as my mom or having just a horrible relationship with my kids as I do with my mom.

Blain 08-04-2006 07:16 PM

SHUT UP YOU'RE RUINING OUR POKEMON TALK :p: Shall we make a pokemon thread?

explosions-in-my-pants 08-04-2006 07:37 PM

being alone emotionally, in a relationship that I've faught for.
being depressed to the point of hating and wanting to end my life.
having spiders attack me.
letting my dog run around on my street, then one day seeing her get hit by a car.
letting my cat out all the time, then one morning he just doens't come home.
being involed in a relationship for 10 years, and then never getting asked to be married.. then you break up over time and he finds someone new and in 3 or less years, is getting married to someone else.
finding out that life is harder then it actually seems, and it seems pretty ****ing hard from my view.
finding out my boyfriend cheated on me. catching them in the act.
loosing a baby; wanted or not.
In a deadly car accident with my boyfriend, and he's the one that dies. Living with that would kill me, or at least make me want to kill me.
realizing my whole life is a waste.
having kids, then to my dismay, they all die before me.
losing my sanity over a guy.
never getting married, never having kids.

thats it for now.

Stone Magnet 08-04-2006 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
realizing my whole life is a waste.

Well, I hate to have to be the one to tell you, but...

explosions-in-my-pants 08-04-2006 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Stone Magnet
Well, I hate to have to be the one to tell you, but...

haha!

Reznorslave 08-04-2006 08:23 PM

Death

Spike*Spiegel 08-04-2006 11:38 PM

being alone

explosions-in-my-pants 08-04-2006 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Spike*Spiegel
being alone

well now you have your daughter, you'll never be alone.. well at least not for the next 17 years. but if you mean man wise, you really hot, plus being a mother at a young age doesn't make you look like a slut, it makes you look like a hot mom, thats mature, easy going, and ready to marry... or at least thats what might come off..

Raine 08-04-2006 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
well now you have your daughter, you'll never be alone.. well at least not for the next 17 years. but if you mean man wise, you really hot, plus being a mother at a young age doesn't make you look like a slut, it makes you look like a hot mom, thats mature, easy going, and ready to marry... or at least thats what might come off..

being a teenage mom doesn't make you a slut

explosions-in-my-pants 08-05-2006 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Raine
being a teenage mom doesn't make you a slut

not saying that it does. But some people would think so.. I find that most people around where I live just guess and make up rumors that the girl got knocked up cause she was a slut.. cause most offten then not, the guy that did it deined all parts in fatherhood.

most teenage girls that get pragnant around here are teenagers, and were sluts. It completely changed there outlook and the way they dressed and acted around boys.

Raine 08-05-2006 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
not saying that it does. But some people would think so.. I find that most people around where I live just guess and make up rumors that the girl got knocked up cause she was a slut.. cause most offten then not, the guy that did it deined all parts in fatherhood.

most teenage girls that get pragnant around here are teenagers, and were sluts. It completely changed there outlook and the way they dressed and acted around boys.

BS. I know too many poeple (teenagers specifically) that are not sluts, know their baby's dad is and waned to have kids.
If you have had that much sex and wouldn't know your kid's dad even if it were your own dad then yeah, you're a slut.
And appearances aren't everything. Dressing like a slut (no matter how often)doesn't make you a slut.

explosions-in-my-pants 08-05-2006 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Raine
BS. I know too many poeple (teenagers specifically) that are not sluts, know their baby's dad is and waned to have kids.
If you have had that much sex and wouldn't know your kid's dad even if it were your own dad then yeah, you're a slut.
And appearances aren't everything. Dressing like a slut (no matter how often)doesn't make you a slut.

whats your problem, I was saying something nice to her. I never said in it she was a slut, I was just pointing out that she's a hot mom..

and no matter what you think, men will look at single women that have children in a different way.. not that its a bad thing.

stop trying to find mean things, and stop trying to add things to what I've said. Are you that bored?

Raine 08-05-2006 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
whats your problem, I was saying something nice to her. I never said in it she was a slut, I was just pointing out that she's a hot mom..

and no matter what you think, men will look at single women that have children in a different way.. not that its a bad thing.

stop trying to find mean things, and stop trying to add things to what I've said. Are you that bored?

Interpret it as you will.

Spike*Spiegel 08-05-2006 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
whats your problem, I was saying something nice to her. I never said in it she was a slut, I was just pointing out that she's a hot mom..

and no matter what you think, men will look at single women that have children in a different way.. not that its a bad thing.

stop trying to find mean things, and stop trying to add things to what I've said. Are you that bored?

hey, i got what you said and i appreciate it.

explosions-in-my-pants 08-05-2006 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Spike*Spiegel
hey, i got what you said and i appreciate it.

good :) just goes to show, not everyone tries to bring out the bad in everything.. or add bad to everything for that matter.

dog 08-05-2006 04:36 AM

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
no. I was a deprived child. I wasn't allowed get game consoles of any kind. I didn't get a game boy till Pokémon game out, and I didn't have access to my own computer games till I was about... 12 I think. I could play them at other people's houses, but I didn't have them myself.

are you joking? you consider yourself a deprived child because you didn't get video games? kids born into disease and poverty are deprived. not you.

Barnard17 08-05-2006 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Raine
BS. I know too many poeple (teenagers specifically) that are not sluts, know their baby's dad is and waned to have kids.
If you have had that much sex and wouldn't know your kid's dad even if it were your own dad then yeah, you're a slut.
And appearances aren't everything. Dressing like a slut (no matter how often)doesn't make you a slut.

The only bullshit around here is you. EIMP didn't call anyone a slut. She didn't say she considered anyone a slut. She referenced common public opinion. You're trying to argue with common public opinion by having a go at someone who's on the same side as you? Raine. Think before you post.

explosions-in-my-pants 08-05-2006 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Fal
The only bullshit around here is you. EIMP didn't call anyone a slut. She didn't say she considered anyone a slut. She referenced common public opinion. You're trying to argue with common public opinion by having a go at someone who's on the same side as you? Raine. Think before you post.

:p: thanks again fal!.. your my hero :love: hahahahaha:beer:

Raine 08-05-2006 12:22 PM

I just read the short lived 'babies' thread and . . . well, my fear just got magnified by ten.
I've always wanted to have kids, still do actually. But when it comes to kids, I guess my biggest fear is that I won't be able to give my kid(s) love, attention and all that other important stuff necessaryfor a kid to grow into a well rounded adult. Sure I could give my kid money and trips around the world and stuff. big deal. But I guess sometimes it's the small stuff that makes the real difference.
I guess what I want is to have kids and have them love me rather hate me.
I don't think I'd be able to live if I have the same sorta relationship I have with my kids as i do with my mom.

I'm not afraid of death/reincarnation/afterlife/whatever you wanna call it, but I am afraid of leaving this plane of existance and not have anyone to care for my kids in the wake of my absence.

explosions-in-my-pants 08-05-2006 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
I just read the short lived 'babies' thread and . . . well, my fear just got magnified by ten.
I've always wanted to have kids, still do actually. But when it comes to kids, I guess my biggest fear is that I won't be able to give my kid(s) love, attention and all that other important stuff necessaryfor a kid to grow into a well rounded adult. Sure I could give my kid money and trips around the world and stuff. big deal. But I guess sometimes it's the small stuff that makes the real difference.
I guess what I want is to have kids and have them love me rather hate me.
I don't think I'd be able to live if I have the same sorta relationship I have with my kids as i do with my mom.

thats veyr natureal fear.. more then likely you'll have it until you actually have them rised. I'm sure that every mother fears if they'll rise there children/child right.. and if they can give them all the emotional things.

right-track 08-05-2006 12:37 PM

It is a natural fear and in your case Raine...nothing to worry about.

The fact that you worry about it, proves you will probably make a caring mother.

As for your concerns regarding your relationship with your future children, taking into consideration the relationship you have with your mother...well that's entirely within your control.

Raine 08-05-2006 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by right-track
It is a natural fear and in your case Raine...nothing to worry about.

the fear my be normal but I'm almost certain my response to it these past few years aren't.


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Originally Posted by right-track
As for your concerns regarding your relationship with your future children, taking into consideration the relationship you have with your mother...well that's entirely within your control.

if being a bad parent iwas genetic i inherited the ability from my mom.
if being a 'naive parent' was genetic I inherited it from my dad
worst genes ever if you ask me

MoonlitSunshine 08-05-2006 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ledzeppelinrulz
are you joking? you consider yourself a deprived child because you didn't get video games? kids born into disease and poverty are deprived. not you.

Sheesh, It was in jest. I know damn well that I'm really lucky to have what I have, I was just saying that I was deprived of Consoles.

dog 08-06-2006 03:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Raine
I just read the short lived 'babies' thread and . . . well, my fear just got magnified by ten.
I've always wanted to have kids, still do actually. But when it comes to kids, I guess my biggest fear is that I won't be able to give my kid(s) love, attention and all that other important stuff necessaryfor a kid to grow into a well rounded adult. Sure I could give my kid money and trips around the world and stuff. big deal. But I guess sometimes it's the small stuff that makes the real difference.
I guess what I want is to have kids and have them love me rather hate me.
I don't think I'd be able to live if I have the same sorta relationship I have with my kids as i do with my mom.

I'm not afraid of death/reincarnation/afterlife/whatever you wanna call it, but I am afraid of leaving this plane of existance and not have anyone to care for my kids in the wake of my absence.

heh me reading your post about babies made me wanna make the thread. dont understand why someone would make the concious decision to have a baby come outta their clacker, may result in death, and i personally don't believe that someone can raise another human being without making them hate you, or at least be psychotic and delusional. too much advice and they feel suffocated and think you're trying to control them, too little and they dont know what to do and end up being a priest or some other pointless form of existance. my opinion, not trying to stir anything up or get anyone pissed, im free to say what i want.

Raine 08-06-2006 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ledzeppelinrulz
heh me reading your post about babies made me wanna make the thread. dont understand why someone would make the concious decision to have a baby come outta their clacker, may result in death,

I've always wanted to have kids.
The only thing stopping me from having kids at the moment is the fact that I smoke. Smoking could do damagae to the child. And my weight issues. I'd like to gain at least another four lbs so before I get pregnanat or find outt hat I'm pregnant.
And my doctor says I'm perfectly healthy and aside fromt he cigarettes I'm fine to have a baby. Chances of me dying are slim. No one in my family has died whhile in labor,, no diseases that could keep me from having a safe pregnancy or anything like that.

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Originally Posted by ledzepplinrulz
and i personally don't believe that someone can raise another human being without making them hate you, or at least be psychotic and delusional. too much advice and they feel suffocated and think you're trying to control them, too little and they dont know what to do and end up being a priest or some other pointless form of existance.

I've seen happy families before adn the result of good parenting as well as bad parenting.
If I were to ever raise a child I think I know enough about being a good parent and my experiences with bad parentiong to make the right decisions concerning the welfare of my child.
However I will agree, sometimes me and my child or my child and it's father will have their differences. It's natural. Like any other relationship there are bound to be arguements. These things happen.
And I'd be a little worried about my kids if they never asked me about drugs or why they can't smoke at whatever age they are even though I smoked at that age.

explosions-in-my-pants 08-06-2006 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
I've always wanted to have kids.
The only thing stopping me from having kids at the moment is the fact that I smoke. Smoking could do damagae to the child. And my weight issues. I'd like to gain at least another four lbs so before I get pregnanat or find outt hat I'm pregnant.

Your 16. PLus smoking stops most people from gaining weight.. because when there hungry they go have a smoke instead of eating all the time. So stop smoking, gain weight = have child.
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And my doctor says I'm perfectly healthy and aside fromt he cigarettes I'm fine to have a baby. Chances of me dying are slim. No one in my family has died whhile in labor,, no diseases that could keep me from having a safe pregnancy or anything like that.
Your 16.. What does your boyfriend, and family think of this..HAHA!
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I've seen happy families before adn the result of good parenting as well as bad parenting.
If I were to ever raise a child I think I know enough about being a good parent and my experiences with bad parentiong to make the right decisions concerning the welfare of my child.
Your 16. if you can go without having a child for a few more years, then why don't you? I mean really sometimes girls get knocked up when there teenagers.. but most times they don't try to. Try being as grown up as you can before you TRY to have a child.. because you may think your all grown up now.. emotionally.. but I'm willing to bet you can still be a imature little brat.. Brats don't need to have there own brats until there grown up.
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However I will agree, sometimes me and my child or my child and it's father will have their differences. It's natural. Like any other relationship there are bound to be arguements. These things happen.
And I'd be a little worried about my kids if they never asked me about drugs or why they can't smoke at whatever age they are even though I smoked at that age.
:laughing:

Raine 08-06-2006 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
Your 16. PLus smoking stops most people from gaining weight.. because when there hungry they go have a smoke instead of eating all the time. So stop smoking, gain weight = have child.

Sixteen or not, it's always good to know your health status and get checked up. And I lose or gain weight the seasons. literally.

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Your 16.. What does your boyfriend, and family think of this..HAHA!Your 16.
My mom's the one that took me to get the check up. She helped answer most of the questions. My boyfriend isn't quite ready to have kids for a few more years

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
if you can go without having a child for a few more years, then why don't you? I mean really sometimes girls get knocked up when there teenagers.. but most times they don't try to. Try being as grown up as you can before you TRY to have a child.. because you may think your all grown up now.. emotionally.. but I'm willing to bet you can still be a imature little brat.. Brats don't need to have there own brats until there grown up.

I am already being as grown as I can. And I imagine that when I'm 21 I'll still be paying bills, living with someone, have a job, and going to school, same as I am now
Anyone can be an immature brat. There are a lot of adults that don't act their age and act no better than a little kid.

I have no desire to argue my point. As this will still be my phobia at the end of the night.

xoxokiss1200 08-06-2006 09:55 PM

im afraid of being alone!

explosions-in-my-pants 08-06-2006 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
Sixteen or not, it's always good to know your health status and get checked up. And I lose or gain weight the seasons. literally.


My mom's the one that took me to get the check up. She helped answer most of the questions. My boyfriend isn't quite ready to have kids for a few more years


I am already being as grown as I can. And I imagine that when I'm 21 I'll still be paying bills, living with someone, have a job, and going to school, same as I am now
Anyone can be an immature brat. There are a lot of adults that don't act their age and act no better than a little kid.

I have no desire to argue my point. As this will still be my phobia at the end of the night.

Then don't argue it.. But I honestly hope that it stays so much a phobia for you that you hold off for a long time...

like I said you may think your as grown up as you can be.. but you'll see in 10 more years just how much more mature you will be. Just because you pay bills and live with your boyfriend doesn't make you grown up..
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Originally Posted by xoxokiss1200
im afraid of being alone!

how old are you? Well I'll guess by your nickname that your really young. So your like any normal person at any age. I do believe almost everyone has this fear at least 3 times in there life time; more so after they''ve just gotten out of a relationship, when he/she thinks they'll never find anyone ever again, that, that person was it.. there soul mate..

I just wouldn't worry to much about it, you'll find someone.. or he'll find you.

sleepy jack 08-06-2006 10:00 PM

It screams bad idea dragging a kid into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, are you even thinking about how this kid will grow up?

Raine 08-06-2006 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
Then don't argue it.. But I honestly hope that it stays so much a phobia for you that you hold off for a long time...

like I said you may think your as grown up as you can be.. but you'll see in 10 more years just how much more mature you will be. Just because you pay bills and live with your boyfriend doesn't make you grown up..

I'm gonna email this post to my mom.

As for me living with my boyfriend. It makes me a little dependent on him for certain things yeah. But the alternative is i could go back to living by myself which would be a lot boring. Although I imagine a lot cheaper as well. . .


damn. this post is really priceless.

explosions-in-my-pants 08-06-2006 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
I'm gonna email this post to my mom.

As for me living with my boyfriend. It makes me a little dependent on him for certain things yeah. But the alternative is i could go back to living by myself which would be a lot boring. Although I imagine a lot cheaper as well. . .


damn. this post is really priceless.

I think your crazy for wanting to have a kid at this age.

and whats so funny about the post I made? I'm sure I'm not the only one that thinks the same thing.

Rabid Sea Turtles 08-06-2006 10:06 PM

I think she should hold back on reproduction for as long as possible.
Do the planet a favor.

Raine 08-06-2006 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
I think your crazy for wanting to have a kid at this age.

and whats so funny about the post I made? I'm sure I'm not the only one that thinks the same thing.

You have no idea what my family is like. But if you did, you'd know why your post seemed funny to me as it will my mom as soon as she reads it.
I'm actually tempted to call her ont he phone and get on her comp.

At any rate, I've almost always wanted a kid. It's something of a goal of mine.
And I'm a rather goal oriented person.
However I realize I can not have a kid at the stage of life I'm at now. But maybe after I graduate from high shcool in a few about a year, I'll move that goal date up.

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Originally Posted by crowquill
It screams bad idea dragging a kid into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, are you even thinking about how this kid will grow up?

yes.


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