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[MERIT] 10-31-2006 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Ma Cherie (Post 299940)
well i'm suprised you didn't mention me oojay

well you would fall under "anyone female" ;)

MURDER JUNKIE 10-31-2006 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by oojay (Post 299939)
im open to just about anyone right now (anyone female that is). all of my lady friends have apparently forgotten how to answer their phones.


Where is your confidence man??

You need to put yourself out there and find some poon, the law of averages states that if you ask ten girls out one is bound to say yes. If a girl says no don't get all vexed by it, tell yourself that you can probably do better.

There is no such thing as being too confident

In high school I used to be the shy guy that didn't say much and I didn't get too many girls, after graduation I watched what other dudes with game were doing. I began to carry myself like I had cannonballs for balls, I hang out with a pretty good looking group of dudes and before I knew it I was banging hotter chicks than them simply because I was the guy with the balls to say something and create conversation. This simple formula has helped me in every aspect of my life, especially career wise. I do all of the same things as everyone else but I have more charisma and simply pass myself off as better than anyone else, also dress the part. If you dress nicer than anyone else people subconciously think that you are used to a certain lifestyle, waiters in restaurants employ this tactic often to increase there tip size. Next time you are out eating take a look for watches and jewellry on your server, it is a fact that this works.

You are the best, never forget it

[MERIT] 10-31-2006 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by MURDER JUNKIE (Post 299942)
Where is your confidence man??

You need to put yourself out there and find some poon, the law of averages states that if you ask ten girls out one is bound to say yes. If a girl says no don't get all vexed by it, tell yourself that you can probably do better.

There is no such thing as being too confident

thats actually great advice. but im not worried about being turned down. its just my "sure-thing's" arent answering my calls:( man, i used to be such a ladies man when i was drinking, but now that ive quit, im in a slump. i dont really hang around with all my friends as much because thats all they ever wanna do. at this point in my life i think im gonna look for a long-term girlfriend as opposed to f**k buddies and party hook-ups.

MURDER JUNKIE 10-31-2006 11:03 PM

read my edit

[MERIT] 10-31-2006 11:06 PM

im actually a bit upset tonight. today is exactly 1 month clean and sober for me (of course it has to land on halloween), and i cant go to any parties with my friends because i KNOW that i will relapse. and none of my friends were willing to chill with me instead of partying all night. kinda puts sh*t in perspective.

MURDER JUNKIE 10-31-2006 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by oojay (Post 299943)
thats actually great advice. but im not worried about being turned down. its just my "sure-thing's" arent answering my calls:( man, i used to be such a ladies man when i was drinking, but now that ive quit, im in a slump. i dont really hang around with all my friends as much because thats all they ever wanna do. at this point in my life i think im gonna look for a long-term girlfriend as opposed to f**k buddies and party hook-ups.


You are too young for that, you should date a lot of girls and if something long term happens it happens. You can't simply go out shopping for a long term girlfriend as it takes time to get to know them and it only sets you up for dissappointment

[MERIT] 10-31-2006 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by MURDER JUNKIE (Post 299946)
read my edit

wow, thast EXACTLY how i view things. everytime i walk down the street im 100% sure that im the best and baddest motherf**ker on the planet and no one can touch me. gotta look out for number one cuz nobody else is.

[MERIT] 10-31-2006 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MURDER JUNKIE (Post 299948)
You are too young for that, you should date a lot of girls and if something long term happens it happens. You can't simply go out shopping for a long term girlfriend as it takes time to get to know them and it only sets you up for dissappointment

yeah i guess, but im just so tired of the petty hook-ups and meaningless sex. guess im sick in the head or sumthin, but i just need a little more at this point.

MURDER JUNKIE 10-31-2006 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by oojay (Post 299947)
im actually a bit upset tonight. today is exactly 1 month clean and sober for me (of course it has to land on halloween), and i cant go to any parties with my friends because i KNOW that i will relapse. and none of my friends were willing to chill with me instead of partying all night. kinda puts sh*t in perspective.

Go to the movies or take yourself out for a nice dinner, you deserve it.

Was booze that much of a problem for you??

We'll take this to PM's after this post

blackTshirt 11-01-2006 06:00 AM

wow oojay you've got the brains and the courage to decide something like that for you
i'm proud, really and i'm happy for you cause usually young guys like you wouldn't think about their priorities like that
keep up the good work and you'll find yourself a lady

and your friends are pretty lame if they prefer to get trashed together just like any other day instead of being with a friend once when he needs them
don't stress over them, just tell them not to expect much from you either


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