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right-track 03-03-2007 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 344774)
I know mate, but I think you and I are at a level where either would apologize if they figured they'd offended the other. I know I did when I pissed you off in the northern soul thread. I said something wrong and was genuinely sorry for it. And at this point, I would take any criticism coming from you.

Knobhead ^ ;)

hahaha...I remember that.

It made me feel bad after too. :)

adidasss 03-03-2007 04:35 PM

They're friends (of sorts). He's gay. It's another thing I can't quite figure out, she admits that he's a cunt, yet it doesn't seem to bother her much. It's fascinating how people can have friends that can't stand each other. I would think that you surround yourself with people similar to yourself....so how can that happen?

adidasss 03-03-2007 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 344777)
Knobhead ^ ;)

hahaha...I remember that.

It made me feel bad after too. :)

[I'm sorry, I'm rather bored and talkative tonight so indulge me ;)] The way I figure, things or actions become wrong if the other party feels they're wrong. I obviously didn't mean to piss you off, but seeing as how I actually did, the comment became wrong, and consequently I felt sorry for making it. It's the other (offended) party that holds the monopoly to judging actions of others. Does that make sense? What I'm trying to say is, it doesn't matter if her comments were innocent, if I felt hurt by them, she's automatically in the wrong no? It's not a case of a joke that goes over your head....

Kevorkian Logic 03-03-2007 04:41 PM

Ok, is he hotter than you?

Girls often surround themselves with who they think is the hottest (some sort of girl dominance thing, the hotter guys I surround myself with the more I'm worth)

adidasss 03-03-2007 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic (Post 344783)
Ok, is he hotter than you?

Girls often surround themselves with who they think is the hottest (some sort of girl dominance thing, the hotter guys I surround myself with the more I'm worth)

Is he hotter than me?Haha...I should think not, no. He's extremely intelligent though and is basically all over my ass because I was rather cold to his advances. Hell hath no fury like a fag scorned...;)

right-track 03-03-2007 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 344782)
[I'm sorry, I'm rather bored and talkative tonight so indulge me ;)] The way I figure, things or actions become wrong if the other party feels they're wrong. I obviously didn't mean to piss you off, but seeing as how I actually did, the comment became wrong, and consequently I felt sorry for making it. It's the other (offended) party that holds the monopoly to judging actions of others. Does that make sense? What I'm trying to say is, it doesn't matter if her comments were innocent, if I felt hurt by them, she's automatically in the wrong no? It's not a case of a joke that goes over your head....

Agreed. My reaction to that post of yours in my thread cut deep about something I love strongly. It angered and embarrassed me.
It was only later that I realised it was just friendly banter.

I think I deleted both posts out of feeling bad, when I was a mod, because of it.

She's only in the wrong if you let it bother you mate...if you know what I mean.

Kevorkian Logic 03-03-2007 04:50 PM

Hahaha,

but there is some sort of twisted girl power play going on, I know that situation too well. Do you want to date/become really good friends with her or not?

adidasss 03-03-2007 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 344787)
She's only in the wrong if you let it bother you mate...if you know what I mean.

Ah, but that's the gist of it, I tried not to let it bother me but I can't. I would love it if I was cool and impervious to insulting, but alas....I'm rather emotional...over sensitive and paranoid for sure.

right-track 03-03-2007 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 344791)
but alas....I'm rather emotional...over sensitive and paranoid for sure.

And don't ever change. :)

adidasss 03-03-2007 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic (Post 344790)
Hahaha,

but there is some sort of twisted girl power play going on, I know that situation too well. Do you want to date/become really good friends with her or not?

You don't realize I'm gay yet?;) I've learned to get along without many people around me, so no, I don't really need to be friends with her...I thought we were on the same wave length, maybe I was wrong. I'll see how this situation develops.


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