i need some serious help.
 

ok. heres the story.

so theres this guy, who one day at school just started to follow me around and stuff, and talked to me a few times, i think he may have some illness of some kind, but anyway. One day out of the blue, when i hardly knew him, he invited me over to his house, now i didnt want to just refuse the guy flat out (i hate making people feel bad) so i just said that we could plan something sometime.
biggest. mistake. ever.

now he thinks that we are like best friends now, and he somehow acquired my phone number, and myspace account and whatnot, and keeps nagging me about hanging out with him. i really dont want to, hes just not the type of person i could have fun with. but me being the "nice person i am" i couldnt just tell him to go away, it would kill him.


now that being said, how do i tell this guy, in a nice way that i dont want to hang with him?

thanks so much. ignore my terrible grammar, this was written in like 1 min.
(i am a guy btw)

There is no nice way.
Just tell him to piss off and stop bothering you.

:(

I HATE TO HURT PEOPLE :(

is that my only hope?

there is no nice way as right said. this kid obviously can't really see reality, any way you tell him he will take it negativly.

"I really appreciate you wanting to hang out and all, but I think my faced paced life would ruin your already delicate one....I don't want to be a burden nor a hassle...So I can't hang out...It's just I need to settle some stuff out in my life..."

idk....something along those lines...idk,..just thought of that randomly.

A headbutt's out of the question then?


Ring his house constantly and at daft times, like 3am in the morning.
Tell him you can hear his voice in your head and you can't sleep because of it.
Tell him to stop doing it and that if he wants his parents dead that much, tell him to kill them himself.
In the morning at school, act like nothing happened.
Do this for a week.

Stick your hand down his pants , give him a squeeze & tell him you want him while licking his face.

Yeah ive been in similiar situations. One time this kid really wanted to come over, and i said my parents don't allow anyone over while they're gone, he replies "okay, thats cool"

and he ****ing waits outside for an hour, until i break and let him in. Luckily for me he was an orphon, and got adopted and had to move :D

maybe you'll get lucky :-/

Tell him stories about how your parents are into naziism and don't like his kind.

Heh good suggestion but he allready mentioned "hes just not the type of person i could have fun with"

HAHAHAHA thank you
I think that saying your parents are crazy is a good idea. If he doesn't get it when you ignore him, then make every conversation really quick. Be really nice but just say a few sentences and say bye and walk away. Do that enough and he'd have to get it.

tell him that, your dad wont you let you hangout with him( i dont know how old you are but it could still work for some reason)

Tell him that you have AIDs and it could spread airbourne.

i've had to deal with somebody like that at least once every year for the past 3 years. they ****ing drive me insane! there was this one guy who wouldn't stop talking about Cthulu, and 4chan, and GWAR, and all this **** i didn't care about, and when the bell rang and i walked out, he followed me the entire time to tell me about Communism or something completely stupid. and he ALWAYS through in these vague suggestions that i should invite him over to my house. EVERY TIME he talked at me. he did this to everybody, i swear, EVERYBODY, and every person i asked hates him, but cant work up the courage to tell him off. he has a rapist voice and whenever he tells some kind of sexual joke, it makes you feel extremely uncomfortable, even if you're a guy. you think he's serious. it's just terrible. my luck finally came to the fact that he was one grade lower than me, and i don't have to see him in school ever again because im freaking out of there!

Stay in it until he proposes. Then, come wedding day, take the ring and ditch him at the altar. It's all worth it.

Trust me, one day this lame-ass friend of yours will invite you to a party with Greg Oden there. And then you'll know it's been worth it.

take him to some place where he'll feel really uncomfortable like a crazy club and go out, do your thing and let him fend for himself. repeat as much as possible. he'll realize he's out of his pond and stop buggin you as much.