What would you do?
 

your girlfriend/wife talks to a guy and she wont let you see what shes saying or texting and she hangs out with him? what would you do would you get mad? would you leave her what would you say?

I wouldnt get mad, Id just tell her to look me in the eyes and tell me that shes not up to anything. Shes got very right to keep things private. Dont makes decisions based off hunches.

It's also possible that she and the other guy are actually planning some very nice secret surprise for you. (Such as some vacation or something expensive that you wanted). (Just a thought to give both of them the benefit of the doubt, and wait and see).

Well thats certainly not what I would expect from any woman I'v ever met. :p:

true but you got to look at the what ifs at negative perspective too

and what if the guy had feelings for her but she said she had none for him, would u still let her talk to him and hang out with him?

Id be angry about it and she would be able to tell. Thats really all you can do right. Or go talk to the guy.

But hey, this probably isnt the best place for advice. We may know about music but im pretty sure relationships aren't high on the talent list.

its not advice that i need really, just popped into my head thinking wat i would do if my gf did ever do that lol

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Haha theirs one for every occasion huh.

chances are if she's talkin to someone in a way that would negatively affect your relationship you would know that there's a problem with your relationship

A man should trust the woman he is with and if he doesnt then he shouldnt be with her, plain and simple, if he has any sort of a hunch or gut feeling about something or things seems weird and out of the ordinary he should confront her straight up and ask what the deal is. I personally wouldnt put up with that, it might not be the right way to deal with it but from what ive seen happen to friends of mine and happen to myself as well, I dont put up with any shaddy **** like that, IMO if shes hiding something chances are it isnt anthing that could benefit you, and if she had any respect she would say what is going on weather its good or bad. If my girl was being all sneaky texting and hanging out with some other dude Id tell her to hit the road, straight up.

To figure out if she's cheating on you, you only have to catch her banging another guy.
If she's banging another woman, then it's only cheating if you're not in on it.

Simple.

wtf kind of advice is that???????

The only kind that's guaranteed to work.

How old are you? if you're not 40 toss her.

Hahaahaha

**** bro if he IS 40 Id say toss her!

Nah. The general rule is:
If you're forty and beyond, regardless of the state of your relationship, if your girl is thirty or below, you only break it off if you're no longer getting any ass from her.

Everything else is secondary.

yes. absolutely.

if you don't trust your partner then the issue is on your shoulders, if she doesn't respect your trust then the issue is hers, and vice versa.

either way both of those conditions need to be met by each individual in order for a relationship to have ANY lasting worth.

immature jr. high drama BS only has a place in jr. high.

Just make sure you're not dating a chick who's in Jr. High.

and what if your in high school lol

uhhh negative ghost ridder

Aim higher.

If you can't trust her enough to text who she wants and keep her privacy then you're going to have a miserable relationship and probably shouldn't be in one.

I agree with dac.

I tried one of those long distance relationship thingies... I found out that the girl cheated on me so much that her lover probably thought she was cheating on him with me.

I couldn't trust her after that. lol.
So yea... it didn't work out...

Keyword is trust. You gotta trust.
AKA: Lose your instinct and experience and blindly dive into a potential disaster.

Sometimes it works out.

That's some good humor. I agree with it.

Bull****

If i'm in a relationship I wouldn't go hanging around other girls , texting them and then hide the texts from my girlfriend , there are certain ways you should act if you are with someone out of respect for them and this isn't one of them regardless if it's innocent or not. I wouldn't do it to someone and I don't expect to have it done to me.

Whatup Surell.
Had fun last night. I was a total drunk. I don't even remember what I typed.

Urban,

I think it depends on whether it's a new move or a predictable one.
If homeboy is getting confronted with this for the first time after being in the relationship long enough to know his girls' moves, then you're right. It's suspicious.

But if she's normally defensive of her privacy, then interrogating her about it won't help anything.

You're right about respecting the relationship... But if homeboy never demanded that kind of respect in the first place, she probably doesn't even know she's crossing any boundaries.
Who knows, maybe she wouldn't care if he did the same thing.

(fat chance, right?... we know women...)

I agree 100%

Punch to the face. It's how I roll.

Lol...


EDIT:
I can't believe I just capitalized a lol.

I know what you mean, but if there's no trust it'll be far worse. All you do is ask her completely up front what she is doing. If you don't like her answer or whatever be honest and tell her. Don't play those high school bull shit games, it'll make you completely miserable.

Your right he'll get a surprise he'll catch the friend and her in bed. InTeRoGaTe I always say. Just start questioning her every move it'll show that you can be as annoying as **** and in the end she'll dump you anyway!
:shycouch:

I was going to type something incredibly insightful, but then I realized that nothing can be deduced logically when dealing with relationships.
In order to understand relationships, you literally have to go insane.

wow mature much.

Sarcasm. Look it up.

"smart @$$" look it up