Eh sometimes the butt is ok, I've only done it to one girl though. So I wouldn't ssay i'm an expert.

yesterday I fractured my tailbone and my ass hurts all the ****ing time now, like I can't sleep because every time my bf moves in bed it sends a fresh wave of pain up my ass. Anyhow, I was walking past one of the pit preachers today bitching to my friend how sore my ass was from last night. Apparently the pit preacher heard me and thought I was saying my ass was sore from having butt sex last night.

He proceeded to tell me in a very loud voice in front of the huge crowd that was watching (pit preachers are considered very entertaining where I go to college) about how I was going to hell for having butt sex because only whores do that, then started questioning me about things like masturbation, incest, coke, and lesbianism.

The whole situation was extremely traumatizing.

I did a sympathetic headshake for you.

lol, thanks.

it's more just another reason that religious people are bat**** ****ing crazy and only have respect for promoting their own ideals.

Damn, Kevorkian, I'm sorry you had to deal with bull****. What do you expect in the south, though, right?

As for anal, I can take it or leave. It's never an OK thing if he does it without asking, but I enjoy it from time to time. I must admit, it took a week of binge drinking in Dublin before I had the guts to try it.

Sorry to jump in late on a topic that run it's course, but I prefer girls to have no hair anywhere on their bodies except their head. Whether society's standards contributed to this or not, I don't know, but it is what it is.

It is kind of weird, even silly, when you take the time to think about it.

I've tried the best I can to explain to people why I have this fetish, and they still seem to think I'm f*cking nuts.

Though I have never shared it with anyone outside of the internet. And I think that's stupid because I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, it's a sexual preference therefore a part of my personality and I should embrace it, there's nothing immoral about it at all, it's just not consistant with the traditional standard of female beauty, but who cares about that?

Those standards change, there was a time when fat chicks were in and skinny chicks were out (fatness symbolized weath and power), and since the 60s more people have been free to dress however they want, and today anyone can dress how they want, that should be embraced, not mocked.

And so what if the fashion industry capitalizes on it? That's bound to happen, there's no way to dress anymore that doesn't already have a fashion chain, so it's retarded to criticize goth kids or punks or whatever for following a fashion trend, because we ALL are. We're conformists, yet at the same time we're not, every generation dresses differently from the last. New looks always emerge, the standards of beauty always changes. And that alone should tell you that beauty is a very personal subjective thing and it's what you make it. So if someone laughs at me because I think bald women can be really beautiful, then I'll probably tell that person he's a douchebag, and I'd also inform him on how the supermodels he wanks to would have been considered ugly 100 years ago.

New fashion trends always start with somebody being different, and I don't like to mock people for how they dress, it's a reflection of themselves, you may say "yeah but they're buying mass marketed corporate products", well so what? YOU do to, and you weren't forced to. You chose to f*cking buy what you wear, no one points a goddamn gun to your head, there's a variety of fashion choices, and no one forces you to pick one or the other. It's a choice and it's about time guys like Yukon realise that. People are different, that should be accepted.

I think traditions are made to be broken, the world would be an awfully boring place if everyone looked the same and liked the same things, especially on the topic of sex.

Women that shave isn't exactly what I'd call a fetish...

Define fetish. At one point it was considered very odd to shave, and a fetish to like it. Hair everywhere would've been the norm. Why is it no longer a fetish just because a larger a majority of people like it?

You just answered your own question. Because a majority of people like it.

Donny, you're out of your element.

A lot of guys like their women shaved, but if you were reading this discussion when it started, you'd know what I'm actually talking about.

I'm talking about an actual fetish, I like them shaved.

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No curtains. No drapes. No problem. :D

yeah, if you ever get bored like I do and watch 70s porn for the lulz, you'll totally notice how ****ing hairy all those women were back then.

Not a fan of that I must say.

And when women do shave their heads, I certainly hope they shave all their other areas too. Otherwise it just looks really weird and lesbo-ish.

For example I've seen a chick shave her head but let her legs get really hairy. Ewww. That made me gag.

Sexual fetishism - sexual attraction to objects or body parts not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature.

And Boo Boo, I'm not talking about chicks shaving their heads.
And since when is my name Donny? lol. I'm actually wondering about that part. :D

Edit: I can see where the misunderstanding came from... I was responding to ZZZ when I made that first comment. Your reply was not part of anything I said. :)

LOL. If you look closely at these photos there's a whole bunch of fuzz from her sweater stuck to her scalp.

LMAO... That's probably going to become a fetish.

P.S... If you look closely, she reminds you of the chick on Coneheads.

Well weren't you talking to me? I thought you were. It would kinda help to QUOTE someone before posting RIGHT after me. It's easy to get confused.

And you're right, anything concerning the puss doesn't really count as a fetish.

Other body parts can be a fetish though. Like foot fetishes, navel fetishes, hair (or in my case, lack of) fetishes, etc.

Sorry buddy, I believe it may have been a case of the Wednesdays contributing to that one.
Or that I was typing the response at the same time you were.
Either way, I guess quoting is like insurance.
I should probably start using it.

:D

I do notice that. I could imagine the scalp becomes rather sticky after you shave it (after lathering with shaving cream).

Bah, I knew someone would say that, har har. Don't tell me you wouldn't hit that though. I know you would if she had hair, she's as beautiful as any Indian model, so why should having no hair make any difference?

I honestly don't get the big deal over organic fibers growing on your head that don't serve much of a vital purpose and can grow back in just a few weeks. Yet another example of common sense that doesn't actually make sense. Especially since men seem to have free control over their hair and nobody cares, and women are expected to be hairless everywhere but in one place, just to meet a specific personal preference. Why is it that women have to be up for anything? (Guys with long hair, short hair, no hair, weird hair) yet men have to be so goddamn specific about how women should look? It makes no sense. Hair is something people should have fun with.

Speaking of Indian models, Shilpa Shetty is gonna shave her head for a film role. My prayers have been answered, I can't wait. :tramp:

Honestly, I think hair contributes to my sexual attraction to a woman. I dunno why. But I do know that when I think back to the 80's, then the 90's, then now, I see the progression as being sexy on an up-swing. The faces of human females haven't changed, and not taking into account their clothing styles, the only thing else that makes it is the hair.

I can't imagine seeing a today's hot girl sporting an 80's hair style. It detracts from her hotness. I don't know why. I wish I weren't that shallow, but it actually has an impact on the attractiveness of women for me.
Maybe it's the media's portrayal of what's hot and what's not. Maybe it's just a gradual softening to how women are changing. I don't know. All I know is that 80's hair is not hot. And to me, bald chicks aren't either.

But that's just me.

Well most people feel that way, I understand. I'm just not most people. ;)

In addition I could understand why girls would want to do it, hair is fustrating, I used to have extremely long hair, down to my waist, but I cut it about a month ago to around shoulder length.

Having had very long hair for a good while I can say I know what women go through, having to brush it every day, cleaning it a lot to keep it from getting greasy, keeping it from getting tangled, constantly trying to get it out of your face and off your food, those really hot days, and worst of all it's f*cking heavy, really long hair tends to strain your neck and can even give you headaches.

So theres a lot of reasons for women to cut their hair to short length at least. Sometimes comfort should come before meeting the status quo.

i've planned to lose my virginity before i turn 22. If it doesn't happen by then i'm just going to give up.

Bro, my dream is dreadlocks. I'm on the journey, but being that I just got out of a 6 year relationship of mandatory short hair, I'm not very far yet.

I need tips on dreads. I don't know how to equalize the top/bottom so that it grows right.

I''m 22, will be 23 is just a couple of weeks.

Don't worry buddy, I'm still a virgin, but I'm not giving up hope. I mean for f*cks sake, it's not like Tennessee is a place where it pays to have high standards in guys.

I may be bespectacled prog lovin' otaku who lives with his grandma and likes to play Sega Genesis games all day and fap to bald chicks, but I still have a chance dammit. :(

So yeah, I hope that makes you feel better.

And what, keep drilling the palm?

Dude, take a trip to Vegas or something and get the whole virginity thing out of your head. Besides, you're probably going to be disappointed your first time anyway. Either that, or the girl will DEFINITELY be.

You won't be satisfied once you've stuck your d!ck in a girls snatch.
It's not like a happy ending to a story you've always wanted to finish reading. It's just a matter of adolescent ego that fades.

Edit:
Losing your virginity is like finally finding out why sex with a partner is good. That's it. If anything, it's a curse, because when you're in a dry spell and all you have is your hand, you totally hate yourself for knowing what you're missing.
Cherish your virginity.
Keep it all in your head.
All your masturbation are belong to us.

lolz

yeah, i'm going to be disappointed because it's only going to last 3 minutes and i'm going to look stupid. I know how girls are about the whole " your 20 and still a virgin '' crap. I tried to **** a girl who was a year older than me when i was 17 and when she found out i was a virgin she didn't want anything to do with me.

Pretty sure he was quoting the movie The Big Lebowski.

As for the shaving thing, I think we've all got our personal preferences. With my own, I like to keep a landing strip, and when I shave, it's definitely more sensitive, but like a guy and his facial hair, it's not good to shave it every day. For guys, I guess it's cool if you shave down there, but I prefer it trimmed or just left alone. Guys shaving armpits ... It just looks so weird to me.

dude, i don't look like the typical virgin type. I'm not weird looking, nerdy, or anything like that, i'm just shy when it comes to girls. How i even managed to nearly **** 3 hot chicks is beyond me. I set my standards pretty high for girls, and i'm not going to have sex with a girl who is mediocre ever. There's like no way around it, other than taking my chances with some chick and hoping i don't totally suck. It's a freaking embarrassment just to admit i am a virgin to people. Not that i really care personally, but jesus christ, who waits this long to lose their virginity these days?

Dude, since when has getting your nut off had ANYTHING to do with how a girl looks at you?

You've got to get something into your brain: If you're provided the opportunity to shag a broad and she doesn't know you're a virgin, then dive right the hell in and get it done. I don't care if it's 3 minutes or 3 seconds. Fuk her. Literally and figuratively. Get the whole virginity headcase mentality out of your brain. It's only clouding your judgment.
Yea, so what, you come in 3 minutes. When the girl asks you why it happened, you just tell her she was THAT GOOD.
She won't believe you, but it's the least you can do.

Then after that, you know what it feels like, you know what to expect, and you just work on your self control.

Guys have too damn much to worry about with women much less "what they'll think of them" during sex. Last I checked, sex was a self gratifying process just as much as a giving one. Guys need to stop being so damn sensitive and start giving credit to themselves and realize that girls find that confidence sexy too.

Well, it's easier said than done, but don't ****in' sweat it. Girls can smell fear and some of us are just scandalous enough to use it against a vulnerable virgin as yourself. Wack it before hand, don't be drunk and just dive in. :D

alright, i'm taking this advice. haha

Stop being so damn hard on yourself. You're sabotaging your own opportunities because you're being self-critical.
I know it can be easy to be intimidated by women. We all go through that at some point or another. But there's a point where you gotta stop and say "Sh!t man, I wanna do this thing" and you seriously gotta stop thinking that you have to do it right the first time.
Give yourself a margin of error.
If you can't take the possibility of criticism, then how will you ever learn what you're doing wrong?

Great advice. I still get annoyed when a guy can't **** me twice in a row. I feel like a lot of the times, it's a mental block. I know there are physical aspects of it, too, but there's nothing worse than when you're on a roll and the sex is short-lived. Not that I don't like a guy who expresses his emotions, but sensitive guys who are WAY in-****ing-touch with themselves tend to just piss me off. Ex: If you cry during sex, I'm going to laugh in your face and leave.

Exactly. There is a balance that is LEARNED. (take note of that, Darkest)
You can't begin to learn that balance until you start putting it into practice.
Your first lay is never the best one. It's a learning experience. You find out where things go and you work with what you have.

333, Yea some guys take it to an extreme. Crying after sex is probably something I'd stay away from.
If some chick cried after I did my thing, I'd feel like the cops were coming.
Not good.
I can't imagine why a guy would cry after sex if I were a female... I'd be freaked.

yeah, the whole crying thing is weird. I couldn't imagine that either, lol

God this thread is hilarious.

Haha, I repeat: Cried DURING sex. It was the most awkward moment of my sex life. Who wants to be showered in tears while they're boinkin'? He was only the second guy I'd ever had sex with, and it wasn't even a special, candlelit moment. It was in the back of his goddamn '88 mustang, which was parked in some dark street. It wasn't meant to be some beautiful, touching sex. If I want a good cry, I'll call my girls up. Getting sensitive when we're banging is a no-no. And yes, he cried when I broke up with him a few days after.

But you do get my point right?
You have to put yourself out there if you expect to get any results. You have to let yourself make mistakes in order to learn how to do things better.
When it comes to sex, you can't just take a person's advice as gold.
It takes personal experience to gauge where you stand on things like that.

If you simply rely on your personal fears, being a virgin, they're largely unfounded and simply holding you back from your own possibilities.

Give yourself a chance.
Discard your fears and dive in.
Make self judgments when there's actually something to judge.

Babe, that's not "sensitive".
That's "unstable".

Sounds like a pussy tbh

yeah, i got it.