Are you already quite friendly with them or just an acquaintance?

Kinda in-between. Not just acquaintances, but not good friends either. I know that he's interested but he doesn't want to 'pursue' anything because he knows my ex-boyfriend and apparently it's weird... which is understandable. But still.

Answered you VIA PM. Not tryin' to give away my secrets. ;]

Dang, I would have been interested to know :P

I guess it has. It may not be the best way to seduce someone, but it certainly is the best way to get to know each other and see if you're fit for each other.

And, as far as I've seen you, with the way you look being yourself should be quite enough ;)

What I always do is smile at them and listen attentively when they're talking, and make sure to look them in the eye. Usually always good to make physical contact. I used to be as close as possible to my boyfriend (before he was my boyfriend ob) without touching. I'd start far away and inch a little closer bit by bit. That lead to footsie, which obviously lead to ****ing. That's my advice on it

it's true, when a girl doesn't keep a 'safe' distance you get the idea that she wants more from you. It's not always the case, some people are just touchy, but it might encourage the guy to be a bit close to you, too ;)

Paloma: You just posted 'stay far away' in the other topic :D. This is probably the same guy, you sure you want to help her :D :D

But then when I try and seduce you, you'll know all of my tricks! It's no good. No good at all.

This is good advice. In short "stroke his ego and you can stroke whatever you want."

Given the awkwardness, I suggest you get him going first. Morals and conviction evaporate in a sea of hormones in the male mind. Get him thinking about ****ing you and you can get him to do almost anything.

My question is.. well it's kind of a long and arduous story of a boy I dated on and off for 2 years. This past year we've basically just hooked up, (until I moved away in August.) He was seriously messed up, and in turn, I was seriously messed up. Long story short: he did too many drugs, and I didn't want to see him anymore. He told me to find a man who actually had the "time" and would put in the "effort" to be with me. We had completely stopped talking for over month, and I found someone else. When he found out I'd moved on, he completely flipped his **** and called me every bad name in the book, claiming I'd cheated. I know I wasn't cheating because we were not emotionally involved anymore, and he'd TOLD me to find someone else. He's now using this information in an attempt to slander me. I'm not with the other guy, for obvious reasons (my rebound/his birthday/I moved,) but my ex is still using this as a way to have a reason to hate me. Does this make any sense at all? I'm not a guy but I think this is a seriously screwed up double standard. Our relationship wasn't going anywhere, and I think I just needed a way out.