Hm, though you've a point, Veridical, some girls like it when you at least put forth a little bit of effort into pleasing her. Yes, we hate it (well, I do) when I'm trying to get off, but he repeatedly asks me if its good. I am certainly the type of girl that has no problem telling you what she wants/likes, but there are many, many women/girls out there who are just scared to speak up, or even worse - come on anything besides their fingers.

As for the booty call thing, I like having a no-strings-attached fuckmate, but things seem to turn out differently then planned. Somehow or another, it blows up in my face. Figuratively and literally. ;)

Well, if I actually cared what a girl during a one night stand likes, I'd have to re-think my intentions.
Otherwise, yea, I mean, I'm not totally selfish. I understand the importance of foreplay and sexual etiquette. I just don't give a fuck if it's a random boning of bar chick I don't care enough about to date but am drunk enough to fuck.

that's the thing with sex.

it's never "no strings attached" if you're doing it with a consistent someone.

eventually you end up knowing each other in a whole different level and, unless you're both completely inept at making personal connections, there will be drama.

Agreed and agreed, guys. Gotta run. Be back in a little.

Yea, I can see that line of reasoning.
But:
If I think a girl is hot enough for me to sex her consistently, I certainly don't want some other joe stabbing it too while I hold claim on the cooch. That's where the male jealousy part comes in.
I can't speak for the females though...
They are one wierd breed.

I see what you're saying, man. I put females feelings in the same pigeon hole as their desire for orgasms, who fuckin' cares?

that's how stupid fights get started.....I mean if I'm not in a relationship with her and I"m consistently messing with her but I know it's just for sexual reasons....I don't care who else is in her. just like she probably doesn't care who else I'm screwing around with.

This is the reason why I don't have one night stands with random guys, because it's all selfishly motivated.

It usually goes both ways on the selfishness, don't you think?

Im a jealous d1ck, but if its a casual thing, then I say just let that girl go and find a new one. Im no casual expert what so ever, but I think we have all had those friends with benz.