Music Banter - The Sexual Experience Thread

whoa now... just because i said i've had some interesting offers does not mean i was implying any knowledge whatsoever of bdsm. that is entirely not my thing. i have great sex and hurt myself enough outside the sac that i'm well enough stimulated to have no need of it. to me, bdsm is like drugs. and i'm not going to use another person like a drug, and i'm sure as hell not going to let them use me like one. no offense, but the psychological framework involved in the participation of things like that is, to me, unhealthy. sorry if that grinds your gears, but surely, being a dominatrix, you are prepared for the existence of this type of mindset.

all that being said, there's good money in catering to peoples' strange desires, so all the power to you. we are, after all, given only a capitalist system to create a survival schema inside of.

I'm taking the piss, relax :)

Rjinn

12-30-2012 06:36 PM

I seem to be unable to differentiate between friendliness and flirtatiousness. I'd like to hear how you guys can tell. I've been in so many situations where I assume the person is being friendly but it's not the case. Usually my friends point it out and say "You know she was hitting on you right? You're hopeless..." Anyone else go through this?

wiggums

12-30-2012 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Rjinn (Post 1269522)

Yes. And the reverse, which I think in many cases is worse.

Guybrush

12-31-2012 12:56 AM

I remember not being able to recognize flirting when it happened to me, but now I find it fairly easy. Sometimes, a woman dedicates her attention to me and I notice there's some sort of eagerness that makes it seem a bit more than simply polite gesture. The obviousness of it differs of course (perhaps there are compliments or she seems really interested in what I do), but it's not so hard to pick up on. I guess the language might be just as subtle now as it was then, but perhaps the added years of social experience makes the difference. Or it could be that women around my age (30) are a lot easier to read in general than they were 10 years ago.

I still get it wrong from time to time, though. One time I was at a concert with my wife, I saw this girl who was winking at me. As I always do, I proudly beamed at my wife (then GF) telling her how that girl in the crowd over there had the hots for me. Turned out she was just having really bad facial tics.

FETCHER.

12-31-2012 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by tore (Post 1269597)

I remember not being able to recognize flirting when it happened to me, but now I find it fairly easy. Sometimes, a woman dedicates her attention to me and I notice there's some sort of eagerness that makes it seem a bit more than simply polite gesture. The obviousness of it differs of course (perhaps there are compliments or she seems really interested in what I do), but it's not so hard to pick up on. I guess the language might be just as subtle now as it was then, but perhaps the added years of social experience makes the difference. Or it could be that women around my age (30) are a lot easier to read in general than they were 10 years ago.

I still get it wrong from time to time, though. One time I was at a concert with my wife, I saw this girl who was winking at me. As I always do, I proudly beamed at my wife (then GF) telling her how that girl in the crowd over there had the hots for me. Turned out she was just having really bad facial tics.

:laughing: that is just priceless.

victoria sponge

01-01-2013 02:03 PM

Wrong forum.

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