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Freebase Dali 11-04-2009 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 762902)
It's probably because young children have very little frame of reference for what is significant since everything is so brand new to them.

Makes sense, but why only isolated incidents of mundane activities? Why not a lot more than you typically hear about or personally remember?

It just seems strange how a person can, for example, remember drinking from a red cup and not remember eating from a blue plate when both experiences may be equally mundane in an adult's perspective, but significant in a child's.
I just use that example as a comparison to the memory patterns you see and how they seem randomly selective.

It's interesting.

Freebase Dali 11-04-2009 09:43 PM

I have a lot of memories that I'm not sure actually happened or were dreamt. I remember my dreams very well and still remember childhood dreams I've had, but they're just as blurry now as the memories, so I'm always in a position that causes me to challenge whether half my childhood memories ever really happened to begin with.

Darkest Hour 11-04-2009 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali (Post 762915)
I have a lot of memories that I'm not sure actually happened or were dreamt. I remember my dreams very well and still remember childhood dreams I've had, but they're just as blurry now as the memories, so I'm always in a position that causes me to challenge whether half my childhood memories ever really happened to begin with.

Me too. I don't know if the things i remember from that far back are real or just dreams. I also don't really remember anything between the ages of 5-7 other than experiences at school. Weird.

music_phantom13 11-04-2009 11:00 PM

The earliest memory I have actually wasn't all that mundane. I remember running to the laundry room to talk to my mom, where there's a step going down, and accidentally stepping on my 1 year old sister's head. I guess I must have been a little over 3 at the time.

Freebase Dali makes a good point though, besides that the things I remember are things like banging on a little toy drum we had, watching Sesame Street, eating brown sugar cinnamon Pop-Tarts, and sitting in the backyard. These aren't things that you would think would be particularly memorable.

CanwllCorfe 11-05-2009 08:45 AM

I was trying to get my cat to eat his cat food so I crawled in and ate some to show that it tasted good. That's the logic of a 2 year old.. or 1? I really don't know. I just know I had a blue shirt on and a diaper and couldn't walk.

NumberNineDream 11-05-2009 02:17 PM

It was my 3rd Birthday (so I was exactly 3 years old obviously) and my mum was telling me to stand up on a chair to blow out my candles.

Oh, and I was wearing red jeans.

Meph1986 11-05-2009 02:35 PM

Christmas 1989. I was 3 years old. I remember my father carrying me from bed to the Christmas tree where my baby brother was already opening gifts.

NSW 11-05-2009 05:10 PM

3 seems to be the magic number here eh?

Earliest I can remember is 3 or 4, running to jump on my dad who was laying on the couch. I busted my lip on the button of his shirt. It was one of those pearl snap shirts.

I also have vague memories of rubbing my parents vinyl records against the textured wall in our apartment. Would have to have been around 4/5 then. Needless to say, they were not pleasantly surprised when they went to play those.

NumberNineDream 11-05-2009 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife (Post 763320)
3 seems to be the magic number here eh?

Earliest I can remember is 3 or 4, running to jump on my dad who was laying on the couch. I busted my lip on the button of his shirt. It was one of those pearl snap shirts.

I also have vague memories of rubbing my parents vinyl records against the textured wall in our apartment. Would have to have been around 4/5 then. Needless to say, they were not pleasantly surprised when they went to play those.

From what I know, studies have showed that at 3 years, the baby develops his longterm memory.

Of course, it differs from a person to another, but I alway found it curious how the first thing I remember was exactly after three years from my birth. (as the studies had shown I mean)

Kamikazi Kat 11-05-2009 06:38 PM

I remember my parents telling me how when I was really young (too little to remember doing this), I was outside and was playing when I eventually made my way into my neighbor's backyard. I then had to take a piss, so being a little kid, I just dropped my pants and pissed. I didn't realize I was pissing on large backyard Jesus statue. They are a really religious family, so ever since then, they sort of hated me and my family... I look back on it and laugh.


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