I don't have time to read anyone else's comments (sorry). But if you feel like you need a little closure or something, you have the perfect avenue set up already. It seems like you're confused as far as what to do because you really didn't have much of a relationship with her recently. I think if you just made an anonymous donation to the charity you said she worked with, it would be like a silent 'tip of the hat' to an old friend, and it might help you get over it.



Edit: ****, I just now did go back and read some and saw that you already thought of it. Still I do think it's a good idea.