VEGANGELICA |
03-11-2010 08:35 AM |
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Originally Posted by mr dave
(Post 835468)
i feel no shame and refuse to apologize for calling a noob an idiot for attempting to trivialize a 6 decade career into an easy grade by regurgitating a bio for X amount of pages. someone has to dish out the tough love, coddling complacency and laziness does no one a favour.
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I've communicated back and forth through PMs with people flamed or hounded off the boards, mr. dave, and they are usually not particularly happy about their experience. Being called an idiot doesn't help them.
Sure, it can be frustrating for those more interested in a topic if someone has no desire to learn new knowledge, if that is indeed the case. However, I feel the best way to encourage people to want to learn is to give them an open environment in which to ask the most naive of questions and make the most naive of statements...and to share with them your knowledge so that they realize there is important information they may be missing. Then they may want to look into the topic in more depth because of positive reasons.
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Originally Posted by Neapolitan
(Post 835747)
So you are saying it is normal to be flamed when someone insults you and/or the music you like?
I refrain from calling anyone an idiot on the grounds there are other ways of dealing with them. Don't get mad, get even.
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Very true, Neapolitan, although my reason for never calling someone an idiot is that it is *always false* that an individual is an "idiot." Perhaps she lacks knowledge about a particular area, or motivation to learn about it, but certainly she has all sorts of other abilities that show great mastery and skill...such as an ability to type.
As for "don't get mad, get even," I like the saying that "the best revenge is to live a happy life." I get a lot of revenge. :D
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Originally Posted by tore
(Post 835794)
We still got this rule :
There's nothing in the rules that say you're not allowed to not be knowledgeable about Johnny Cash or any other famous artist out there. The rules are in place generally to stop people acting like ****s. There was a lot of disregard for the rules in that thread and it was not by the OP.
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Agreed.
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