that's perfect did it work though?

I have had to constantly reject some clingy girls and because they are sooo in love with me it doesn't work and they still flirt with me and hang onto the idea that we could be together one day and it's NEVER going to happen.

I had this one girl that liked me so much that she would pretend to be her "cousin" on AOL Instant Messenger. She lied to me about all kinds of stuff to impress me. Even that she was so hardcore (HXC!!!!) that she stabbed her mattress because she was so angry. She also said she owned a pet Liger. When I googled Liger and got the picture she gave me (literally the first result) I pretty much told her she was a habitual liar that was borderline stalking me (calling me without me giving her my number).

She cried and I blocked her.
The End!

what kind of stalker was she that it was over after that? I thought she would have been a bit more persistent.

kirby... I think thats called grooming...

She was more of a stalker in that she called me, and I had never given her my phone number and what not.
She would also try to talk to my girlfriend all the time and try to make her angry or upset about stupid ****, and it never really worked.

ooh okay alright I get it. Damn, she was stalked your whole life!

I can't tell if I'm being rejected or not right now...

I met this girl on an online dating site. Most of the people I have met doing this are crazies, but this girl is like...my perfect girl. We hit it off right away...she gets in touch with me I get in touch with her. We even work at the same place so she pops by and we hang out sometimes. As soon as I ask her to dinner she doesn't respond. But she doesn't say no either. First time around a day after I asked her, she said she was busy and I know she was, so I figured it was legit. I just asked her out again this weekend and it's the same thing all over again.

This is confusing the **** out of me...I just want a straight answer...JESUS

it's up to you but I would forget about her and move on. If she can't give you a simple straight answer and keeps stringing you along like that, she isn't worth it. Even if you are busy, you can still get in contact with someone to say upfront "hey i'm busy" if you cared enough to do so. I wouldn't give her anymore chances. Especially nowadays when there are so many ways to communicate with people email, cell phone call even a stupid facebook message something.

This is what you should say to her. Just use her name instead of JESUS.

Hahaha, it wasn't that bad, but still.
It did go on for a year or two, though. I just summarized the whole thing.


Also, Duga, sadly I agree with djchameleon.